brokendreamz Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 So I just returned from the second date. I like her, got the vibe that she likes me so I went in for a kiss when I dropped her off... ...It was awkward, like teenage awkward where you have to shift around in the car and it's just... we'll.. AWKWARD!!! Any tips? Should I walk a date to her door in future to avoid the embarrassment... In fact - I think I may have just answered my own question there!! Thoughts...
thatone Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 you should ALWAYS walk her to the door, whether first date or 6 months later. wtf no one ever told you that?
alphamale Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Thoughts... there is no rule i know of where you have to kiss the chick at the end of the date
Casablanca Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 there is no rule i know of where you have to kiss the chick at the end of the date True, though for a first date it is usually a good idea to avoid any awkwardness if the other person isnt as receiving since its the end of the date and you two are parting
Cypress25 Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Car kisses are always awkward. That's why they should be avoided. Teenagers kiss in the car because they don't want their parents to see them. So unless you want girls to remember you as the guy who kisses like a teenager, don't kiss them in the car. there is no rule i know of where you have to kiss the chick at the end of the date +1. End-of-date kisses are boring and predictable. By then, you're both thinking "ok, it's time for us to kiss now." Makes it seem like you're following a script. Spontaneous kisses are much better and more fun. Also, if you kiss her in the middle of the date, it leaves time to continue kissing, if you're both enjoying it.
thehead Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Weird angling in the car so I can see how that alone made it awkward. Next time, show some manners (and eliminate awkward maneuvering) walk her to the door or at least get out and open her door for her.
rafallus Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 (edited) How much physical contact was going on just before the kiss? If not much, then forcing a kiss is awkward pretty much by definition. You should get some cuddling, get her to sit on your laps, or whatever other situation when going for a kiss doesn't look like a huge leap in intensity. Edited September 22, 2011 by rafallus
Author brokendreamz Posted September 22, 2011 Author Posted September 22, 2011 Ok, some good points here. In future, I will be looking for a mid date kiss and will ALWAYS walk them to their door. What a dork... Well it has been 8 years since I've had to do this **** so I guess I'm going to forgive myself this one!!
krz12 Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Crap, I just made this exact mistake. Does it doom a 'relationship'?
coolheadal Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Do what you can to make that date be great. All I know is my first date almost a week ago I was already kissing the girl on the first date. I couldn't wait, I did held it back the kisses! Sure she gave me a peck on my cheek first which made me give off a happy smile! Ah!
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