SugarLily Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 So, After getting ditched I thought it was best to avoid 'sad' songs - i.e. songs about being 'in love'. BUT, I am totally in love with this song: I think it's beautiful - but the weird thing is, it doesn't remind me of my ex at ALL. I don't think of him when I hear it - I think about the future. I think about the guy that I WANT to be with - the guy that would feel this way about me. And it makes me excited to think (hope) that I might be lucky enough to meet a guy who would care enough about me to feel that way. But I still don't get it? Why does this not make me sad? Why do I not think of my ex? Am I a robot . . .? x
Mack05 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 No sugar not all. Your emotions are going to change. I remember after my last breakup feeling fine for a few weeks and then BANG. For no reason was seriously depressed for a whole weekend. Some days u will feel strong (ala today) some days you will feel week. The key is to roll with it..
Author SugarLily Posted September 21, 2011 Author Posted September 21, 2011 Thanks Mack - right now i'm flying high! I feel good. I feel alive again. I feel FREE! Like anything is possible - my future is exciting. I honestly feel so light. Well - I should - I've just lost about 13 stone . x
Thieves Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 I can relate! It really is weird. Sometimes I'll put on a semi-sad song, and I won't automatically think of 'him'. My mind might think of him for a few seconds, but then I'll just enjoy the beauty of the song. I don't know, it depends on the song too. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. But the good thing about it is I've stopped associating all sad songs with only him, so I can still enjoy a good ballad. Progress!
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