samsung100 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 I hope someone could provide me on some advice on what I should do. My ex girlfriend broke up w me 11 days ago. To give a little background, we had been dating for 4.5 months. It was a regular relationship, although I wanted a serious one and she did not. I just graduated from college and she had one more year left. But we had spent almost every second of every summer day talking to each other. While the last weekend I dropped her off at school we got upset at each other twice because I was being an insecure baby, trying to micro manage her life(I was frustrated w/ my unemployment),and focused more on her than me, the rest of the relationship was great beforehand. The Problems with us were : she didn’t want a serious relationship and wanted to party/drink and meet new people (be independent and do her own thing her sr year), long distance, and the biggest one was her parents were jewish and would only let her date/marry a jewish boy, one I was not. Anyway, two days after that crappy weekend with her, she called me and told me she was ignoring my texts the night before because she was flirting with some guys. She said with the distance and the jewish thing, it was too much. And she said she wanted a break, whether it be a couple of days, weeks, or months. I told her I would not be waiting and acted as if we were done for good. I told her that if it had come down to the jewish thing and we were serious, I would have converted someday. She said it would be easier to break up now than in a year due to the issue. But if I lived closer, this wouldn’t be an issue. Also, from what I heard, the next day she hooked up with the guy that she was flirting with the night before. I contacted her twice just to ask for my belongings back and the pictures from the weekend before and she replied back. Other than that, She drunk texted me one night saying I miss you but that’s it. While her lack of commitment at the end was bad, if she matured, wanted to settle down, and make a commitment, I would enjoy dating her again. What should I do/how should I approach the situation? She comes home in 11 days and then again in 25 days. Or should I just move on and hopefully someday she will mature enough to settle down.
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