ThsAmericanLife Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 forget the prior post... looks like you figured it out...
ThsAmericanLife Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Hopefully next time you'll find a solution to your intimate relationship problems by talking to your partner, rather than hundreds of strangers on the internet. I think I speak for most men here when I say, if I was him and I found this thread I'd never talk to you again. agreed......
Art_Critic Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Hopefully next time you'll find a solution to your intimate relationship problems by talking to your partner, rather than hundreds of strangers on the internet. I think I speak for most men here when I say, if I was him and I found this thread I'd never talk to you again. Really.. you are criticizing how she sorted it all out.. WTF? Why aren't you happy for her ? instead you then find something wrong with her posting on a web forum..
Art_Critic Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 agreed...... I went back and looked at your posting history.. so the same logic shouldn't apply to you and what you post on the internet ?
ThsAmericanLife Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 The vagina can be stretched so that a fist can fit. . Not mine. If a woman doesn't have children or don't they don't have a wide pelvis, the bones near the opening of the pelvis limit the maximum size she can accomodate without doing major harm. The pregnancy process opens up those bones so that a child can fit through. But not always. Hence the need for emergency actions... and the reason why men looked for 'birthing' hips in the olden days. Before cesareans, many a woman hemorraged to death because the baby couldn't pass.
oaks Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Hopefully next time you'll find a solution to your intimate relationship problems by talking to your partner, rather than hundreds of strangers on the internet. I think I speak for most men here when I say, if I was him and I found this thread I'd never talk to you again. I'd like to be counted in the "not most men" group, thanks. The woman had a problem and asked about it anonymously without anything that would identify her or her partner, and then promptly got attacked for wanting to have fulfilling sex. Let it be.
Art_Critic Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Not mine. If a woman doesn't have children or don't they don't have a wide pelvis, the bones near the opening of the pelvis limit the maximum size she can accomodate without doing major harm. The pregnancy process opens up those bones so that a child can fit through. But not always. Hence the need for emergency actions... and the reason why men looked for 'birthing' hips in the olden days. Before cesareans, many a woman hemorraged to death because the baby couldn't pass. The calcium in her bones being softened has nothing to do with the vagina being able to stretch.
ThsAmericanLife Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I went back and looked at your posting history.. so the same logic shouldn't apply to you and what you post on the internet ? I don't recall talking about a current BF's body parts and how he lacks... You'll notice that I tend to focus on things people can change...
Art_Critic Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I don't recall talking about a current BF's body parts and how he lacks... You'll notice that I tend to focus on things people can change... You are splitting hairs... so it is body parts that can't be talked about now..
AlexDP Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Maybe not what anyone wants to hear, but I don't see how this could work. You'd just fantasise about other men IMO.
Dusk1983 Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Really.. you are criticizing how she sorted it all out.. WTF? Why aren't you happy for her ? instead you then find something wrong with her posting on a web forum.. As the subsequent resolution showed, this could have been sorted very easily without the need to put a post on the internet called "OMG it's small". [A post called "OMG it's small" that will exist in the archives more or less permanently.]
ThsAmericanLife Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 The calcium in her bones being softened has nothing to do with the vagina being able to stretch. sure it does... It is a myth that all women can accomodate all men if she just does Kegel exercises or tries shoving her fist in her vagina. There is a natural middle ground that is based on underlying bone structure, pelvic depth, width, etc.
AlexDP Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 sure it does... It is a myth that all women can accomodate all men if she just does Kegel exercises or tries shoving her fist in her vagina. There is a natural middle ground that is based on underlying bone structure, pelvic depth, width, etc. That there is, but you seem to be saying that the bone structure actually changes when giving birth? Don't get me wrong, I know that bone structure and density can change over time in adults, but is this actually true?
Art_Critic Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 That there is, but you seem to be saying that the bone structure actually changes when giving birth? Don't get me wrong, I know that bone structure and density can change over time in adults, but is this actually true? Yes.. it softens, making the bones pliable.. but it is the giving birth process but rather the pregnancy process.
Art_Critic Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 sure it does... It is a myth that all women can accomodate all men if she just does Kegel exercises or tries shoving her fist in her vagina. There is a natural middle ground that is based on underlying bone structure, pelvic depth, width, etc. Show me some proof of your claim.. because I can show you all the medical info you might need that shows the vagina even if a woman isn't pregnant will stretch. Kegels strengthens the muscles.. not the vagina. And you are right that not all women can accommodate every man but that hasn't got anything to do with the pelvic region softening for the birth process and the way a vagina stretches.
Art_Critic Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 [A post called "OMG it's small" that will exist in the archives more or less permanently.] Agreed.. but isn't the truth with ALL of our posts on LS.. So talking about a wife/husband/bf/gf cheating is okay but talking about a small penis of someone you are dating isn't ?
StoneCold Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I hope all of the men who have their panties in a wad about this are open to dating women who are morbidly obese. Or excessively hairy. Or [insert other conventionally unattractive trait here]. People make choices about who and who not to date all the time. There could be a perfectly lovely obese woman, but why bother if that doesn't float your boat? Why should a woman feel bad about not wanting to spend her life tied to a 4 inch penis if she doesn't want to? Humans are hypocritical, period. Men who are insecure about their penis size will be ranty in this thread. In threads about why women prefer tall men, the short men will be ranty. In one of the zillion threads about men not liking fat women, the pudgy women will be ranty. And every single person who rants will turn around and put their own preferences into play when it comes to choosing a partner. Boo-hoo. Hypocrites, all of us. I think the issue men here have is the principle of it all; not necessarily the dick size.... Many (not all) of the women who "slam" a guy over dick size are the same women that will call a guy an "a$$ hole", "dog" or "shallow" because he has his preferrences....and for the longest time as far as many women are concerned if you are a guy you were "born a dog"....and we have had to put up with it for a looooong time
chphan Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Poor op, asks a question on how to make the sex better with her current boyfriend and the thread gets trainrecked by people being defensive over penis size. I'm sorry op I don't have any advice for you except try google. I'm sure there are people out there who have actual answers for you. She didn't just ask to how to make sex better. She left a last note that she was willing to dump him over it even though he's a great guy. If she just ask how to make sex better it wouldn't be this big issue.
StoneCold Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 This thread does make me wonder how big/small the guy actually is...only because from my experience women are a terrible judge of numerical size lol... I've watched porn with girls and they'll say that a guy who is 7 inches at best is like 10 lmao
Andy_K Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I don't see a problem with what she did. In fact, given that she resolved her problems, wasn't it a good way to do things in hindsight? Her first priority was to fix the sex, and she was only ever going to dump him if that was impossible. I don't see anything wrong with that. Everyone is allowed to have preferences.
Ginger Beer Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Poor op, asks a question on how to make the sex better with her current boyfriend and the thread gets trainrecked by people being defensive over penis size. :mad: See these two posts: I didn't say that, but I'm being told I'm not allowed to 'look for other tits' but women are allowed to 'look for other cocks'. She didn't just ask to how to make sex better. She left a last note that she was willing to dump him over it even though he's a great guy. If she just ask how to make sex better it wouldn't be this big issue. How many times do I have to explain in the thread I was asking a question? The OP didn't get 'trainwrecked' at all. You're ignoring my explanation! You're imagining things and believing what you want to believe.
serial muse Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Agreed.. but isn't the truth with ALL of our posts on LS.. So talking about a wife/husband/bf/gf cheating is okay but talking about a small penis of someone you are dating isn't ? Yeah, exactly. When we stop talking about these very personal issues on LS then it will be time to turn off the lights and go home. This is LS's raison d'etre.
nofool4u Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I think her initial post, ending with "I'm super sexual though so if I can't figure out a way to be happy with his cock I'm going to have to find a different one", is what rubbed some people the wrong way.... I'd say that is correct. If OP doesn't like the size of his member, then break up, go find a bigger one and leave him be to find someone who doesn't have an issue with his penis.
ShannonMI Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Poor op, asks a question on how to make the sex better with her current boyfriend and the thread gets trainrecked by people being defensive over penis size. I'm sorry op I don't have any advice for you except try google. I'm sure there are people out there who have actual answers for you. Yeah agreed. There are an awful lot of small d*cked men on this thread. You can totally pick them out.
OliveOyl Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Maybe she should have just posted a link to:
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