chphan Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 Of course not, - instead you turn to a group of random strangers on an internet sex forum & tell them. Exactly and dead on. Imagine how he would feel if he actually found out about it by reading here. I guess my penis is too small for you too. lol. I'm somewhere between 4 to 5 inch I think. I still need that ruler. But I'm 5'4 so I can get away with it a little since I look for girls around my height anyways. Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonMI Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 What are you talking about? Did you not even read her post? That suggest to me that she was willing to break up with him over his penis being small. She just want an alternative before she resort to that. Yeah I read it. She is looking for advice to make it work sexually with him. That's what I took from most of her post. Of course everyone is going to focus on the negatives. Link to post Share on other sites
thatcatlady67 Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 Last year, I dated this guy who was around 6'3" and his penis was so small, HE asked ME 'is it in?' You can't go by height. Link to post Share on other sites
betterdeal Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 Exactly and dead on. Imagine how he would feel if he actually found out about it by reading here. Well, if we're going to image things, image how he'd feel if he won the lottery? He's not. Link to post Share on other sites
Casablanca Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 Of course not, - instead you turn to a group of random strangers on an internet sex forum & tell them. The same can be said about all the posts of people who think their SO is cheating on them, asking how one should break up with someone, asking if their SO saying "insert statement" is good or bad, etc....this is no different...no reason to treat any differently as it is a big part of relationships That suggest to me that she was willing to break up with him over his penis being small. She just want an alternative before she resort to that. If there is no sexual chemistry/satisfaction I can understand, sex is important for relationships.... Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonMI Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 The same can be said about all the posts of people who think their SO is cheating on them, asking how one should break up with someone, asking if their SO saying "insert statement" is good or bad, etc....this is no different...no reason to treat any differently as it is a big part of relationships If there is no sexual chemistry/satisfaction I can understand, sex is important for relationships.... Sex is very important to a relationship. That's so true. Again, at least she is looking to make things work with him and not just giving him the boot because he isn't well endowed. Link to post Share on other sites
Ginger Beer Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 ema3185, I totally understand what you're saying. It's not shallow, bceause if you're straight and into penis/vagina intercourse, this is a big issue of how you're going to be sexually pleased. Yeah, there's fingers, dildos, and tongues, but if you're into penis sex, there's nothing like a penis! And I've been with a man whom I LOVED who could never get me anywhere close with his penis. It was just too small. Sorry, man. He was a great guy, and a tender lover, but just could not do anything for me with his cock. It's frustrating, because no matter how much he did otherwise, I craved a bigger penis. Some women may not mind--or find pleasure in other ways, or maybe their vaginas adapt well to smaller penis, but some women just cannot find pleasure with a less-endowed gent. It depends on how much importance sex and in particular, this kind of sex, factors into your relationships. And the comment about the tits, is not actually the same. I mean yes, boobs play a role in sex, for women especially, but they are not functional in intercourse in most circumstances. And, she wasn't being rude about his penis, making jokes about it. If I man came on and said that big breasts were a huge turn on to him but his current interest had tiny boobs, and that he really liked her, but that she didn't turn him on sexually with her breasts, that wouldn't be such a bad thing. It's just personal preference. It doesn't mean they're bad people for their preference, unless they go around making jokes or harrassing people for their bodies. I guess the comment about being happy about his cock is the one you had issue with, Ginger Beer. I can understand where you're coming from, especially since she said "I am going to have to find another one." If you're already conceded to the fact that you're going to find another man, then you have obviously already given up on this one. Maybe it is shallow, but hey, why be unhappy in your relationship if your partner is someone or something you don't like? Either give him a chance to prove that he can use his body to give you pleasure (no matter how big his genitals are) or let him go, without telling him it's because he has a small penis. I wouldn't mention that part at all. Chances are, he knows... and it would probably be hurtful and humiliating to hear something like that. It doesn't matter, I think if a man came on here and said his girlfriend was perfect in every way but had small tits and if they didn't work out a way to satisfy him sexually he's going to find another pair of tits to satisfy him, there'd be outrage on this forum. And also, it was a question. How would she feel? I don't know. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 A thicker latex condom could help him with ejaculatory control, as well as typical pressure point manipulation by the woman. I could envision a strap-on variation which allows the strap-on penis for vaginal penetration and using his natural one for concurrent anal penetration used in doggy-style fashion. Hmm...I'll have to work on that idea. Sex apparatuses are a hobby. If you want to stay with him, accepting his penis is part of that process. You and he can be as creative as you desire and find a mutually satisfying middle ground, or accept no joy and part ways amicably. My advice would be, if you and he are otherwise compatible and have good chemistry, give it a couple months of open-minded trying things and see where it goes. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
CambridgeGirl Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 this is most interesting, such veering responses, very revealing. This appears to be hitting many raw nerves, remind me never to mention tool size, ever, never, ever... Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 Have you tried anal? Anytime someone complains that a penis is too small I say they put it in her a$$, it would be huge then I'm afraid I agree with some of the posters that are comparing it to a woman's chest size.. if a guy posted what she just did they would be tar and feathering him right now. Link to post Share on other sites
js77 Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 It doesn't matter, I think if a man came on here and said his girlfriend was perfect in every way but had small tits and if they didn't work out a way to satisfy him sexually he's going to find another pair of tits to satisfy him, there'd be outrage on this forum. Correct. This is a concept known as 'hypocrisy'. Link to post Share on other sites
cherrylips Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 (edited) -Definitely do your Kegels. -Someone mentioned anal, but you might want to consider using anal beads or a plug, in order to get a more "fuller" feeling while having PIV intercourse -Maybe try a cock ring, to keep him from ejaculating too soon, and keep a lot of blood to the penis -Positions that provide deeper penetration. Doggy style, missionary with legs pinned back. The vagina only has nerve endings in the top 1/3 of it. The clitoris is what you need to focus on. Have him concentrate on making contact with the clit with his pelvis. P.S: for all the threads started by men on here bitching about women's weight, guys need to get some thicker skin. Don't want to be with a "fatty"... fine. Don't want to be with a guy with a small dick... fine! Just cause someone doesn't meet your ideal of attractiveness doesn't make it right to tear another person down because of physical qualities. Edited September 21, 2011 by cherrylips Link to post Share on other sites
Casablanca Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 It doesn't matter, I think if a man came on here and said his girlfriend was perfect in every way but had small tits and if they didn't work out a way to satisfy him sexually he's going to find another pair of tits to satisfy him, there'd be outrage on this forum. And also, it was a question. How would she feel? I don't know. Apples and oranges....the penis is used in sex, the boobs are not and are purely aesthetic, unlike the penis which is functional Link to post Share on other sites
Ginger Beer Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 Apples and oranges....the penis is used in sex, the boobs are not and are purely aesthetic, unlike the penis which is functional It doesn't matter what it's used for. Breasts can also be used in sex. Small tits are depriving him of a tit-wank. Are you saying it's fine for a man to be deprived of a tit-wank but not fine for a woman not to be fully satisfied with penetrative sex? Link to post Share on other sites
Casablanca Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 It doesn't matter what it's used for. Breasts can also be used in sex. Small tits are depriving him of a tit-wank. Are you saying it's fine for a man to be deprived of a tit-wank but not fine for a woman not to be fully satisfied with penetrative sex? Yeah, titty ****ing (which I call it) for one has never done anything for me and two, doesnt give the same sort of pleasure as vaginal intercourse The vagina easily has the market share on body parts used for sex...boobs dont even come close Link to post Share on other sites
Ginger Beer Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 Yeah, titty ****ing (which I call it) for one has never done anything for me and two, doesnt give the same sort of pleasure as vaginal intercourse The vagina easily has the market share on body parts used for sex...boobs dont even come close What might or might not be a turn-on for one person is irrelevant. You can't help the body you are born with. I have already said in threads before that there is nothing wrong with women preferring large penises. It was the 'if we can't sort this I'm finding another cock' comment I found a bit harsh, if it was the other way round people would be moaning. It is her choice, but it's no different to the breast scenario. Link to post Share on other sites
Casablanca Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 What might or might not be a turn-on for one person is irrelevant. You can't help the body you are born with. I have already said in threads before that there is nothing wrong with women preferring large penises. It was the 'if we can't sort this I'm finding another cock' comment I found a bit harsh, if it was the other way round people would be moaning. It is her choice, but it's no different to the breast scenario. You are totally fooling yourself if you think boobs and penis are the same thing...again, whether you like it or not, one is much much much more functional compared to the other...my guess is the reason they are getting compared is because they are the two body parts that get talked about in terms of size the most If I wasnt sexually satisfied I'd leave too...she is trying and that is what is important...maybe she worded it a bit harsly, but she wouldnt be the first or last to leave because of sexual dissatisfaction Link to post Share on other sites
LoveandSuch Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 Hee Hee, what is wrong with loving a large beautiful penis! I would say the perfect size is 61/2 to 8 inches, right? The downside if it hits the wrong spot/cervix... like lightening! He could always use the fake penis lesbians use, a prosthetic, not a dildo. I think they say German, Italians, Greeks, Afro Americans, and Spanish men usually have the largest, a study showed that asians were smaller, and East Indians were the littlest on average, although not all I suppose would fit in that group. Have to have large in each ethnicity. Link to post Share on other sites
Ginger Beer Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 You are totally fooling yourself if you think boobs and penis are the same thing...again, whether you like it or not, one is much much much more functional compared to the other...my guess is the reason they are getting compared is because they are the two body parts that get talked about in terms of size the most If I wasnt sexually satisfied I'd leave too...she is trying and that is what is important...maybe she worded it a bit harsly, but she wouldnt be the first or last to leave because of sexual dissatisfaction Which is fair enough, but I just wondered how she'd feel if the situation were reversed. Link to post Share on other sites
Casablanca Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 Which is fair enough, but I just wondered how she'd feel if the situation were reversed. I hope she would understand, you of course should NEVER give that as a reason for a break up Link to post Share on other sites
Ginger Beer Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 I hope she would understand, you of course should NEVER give that as a reason for a break up Hypocrisy. But we're going round in circles now. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveandSuch Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 Okay! To all the guys who are bashing the original poster, what if you met a girl with a huuuuuge vagina with curtains hanging all around, hoods, and all the other....other stuff that can go along with some vaginas? Is it bad to like a large penis or is this a fetish? Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 P.S: for all the threads started by men on here bitching about women's weight, guys need to get some thicker skin. Don't want to be with a "fatty"... fine. Don't want to be with a guy with a small dick... fine! Just cause someone doesn't meet your ideal of attractiveness doesn't make it right to tear another person down because of physical qualities. I didn't know that women's weight is completely unchanging and that there was nothing she could to lose or gain. Link to post Share on other sites
justplaintired Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 All I've got to say is I loved my man with the small dick, and the position I mentioned was just one of the ways we made it work! Link to post Share on other sites
Ginger Beer Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 Okay! To all the guys who are bashing the original poster, what if you met a girl with a huuuuuge vagina with curtains hanging all around, hoods, and all the other....other stuff that can go along with some vaginas? Is it bad to like a large penis or is this a fetish? I didn't say that, but I'm being told I'm not allowed to 'look for other tits' but women are allowed to 'look for other cocks'. Link to post Share on other sites
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