justplaintired Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 I dated a man who was very small in terms of girth (most important aspect of penis size to many women). He had a move where, when in missionary position, he would grab the headboard and kinda slide his body up and down over mine. Very effective!!!
betterdeal Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 I'm going to go measure my cock. Now where's that tape measure...
chphan Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 exactly what I'm thinking.. lol. I need a ruler or something. lol
Author ema3185 Posted September 21, 2011 Author Posted September 21, 2011 Then why did she pick the laughing my a** off icon in her OP? i thought that was the crying icon...those blue spots sure do look like tears to me
Author ema3185 Posted September 21, 2011 Author Posted September 21, 2011 I dated a man who was very small in terms of girth (most important aspect of penis size to many women). He had a move where, when in missionary position, he would grab the headboard and kinda slide his body up and down over mine. Very effective!!! thank you!!! this is what i'm looking for, actually tips. things i can suggest that we try or get him to do...i'll let you know how this one goes
Author ema3185 Posted September 21, 2011 Author Posted September 21, 2011 Ok seriously people...this thread has gone bonkers! All I want is some good sex tips... Facts of my situation: - I REALLY REALLY like this guy a LOT - I respect him and care about his feelings, I am in no way trying to make fun of him and I would NEVER turn to him and say "your cock is too small" - I've had 4 relationships, all of them were 6"+ and thick...this guy is 4" at best and thin...that is a drastic difference in sensation - The actual sex lasted only about 2 minutes (I understand 1st time being too excited) - It doesn't matter what I look like, big tits, small tits, whatever...he's not the one posting on here for advice, I am and I want nothing but sex tips from women who have had a small penis...is that really that terrible of me to ask???
Lucky_One Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Try the sex forum on LS. I guess this original post bothered me because I hate to see people judged on the basis of a body part that is unchangeable (for the most part). If a man came on here and said that he really liked a woman but she had a big floppy p*ssy, that would bother me, too. I just can't see that a penis or a vagina need to make the strongest basis for a healthy relationship.
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Oh wow and I always thought it was about the man attached to the penis, how he is on the inside, how attentive he is, BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH Really just how small is his penis OP? You ought to go to those dating sites for men with very large wangs because I get the feeling nothing pleases you. Of course everything is always the mans fault. Perhaps his penis is not that much smaller than the norm, maybe your vagina is just wider than normal (for a variety of reasons)? I'm sure the lack of pleasure is mutual and probably finds jerking off more pleasurable than being with you. Dude ... Having a STRONG preference for something - even if it is a PHYSICAL thing (like a big wiener, humungous boobs, a gorgeous smile, delicate feet, well defined forearms, long hair) is perfectly permissible and does not make the person with the preference somehow "bad." The gigantic chip you have on your shoulder probably hinders many people from seeing the good things about YOU.
Author ema3185 Posted September 21, 2011 Author Posted September 21, 2011 Try the sex forum on LS. I guess this original post bothered me because I hate to see people judged on the basis of a body part that is unchangeable (for the most part). If a man came on here and said that he really liked a woman but she had a big floppy p*ssy, that would bother me, too. I just can't see that a penis or a vagina need to make the strongest basis for a healthy relationship. I fully understand what you're saying. I'm not judging him, I didn't mean it to sound that way. I was honestly shocked because he's a big guy (6'2") and well built...I was not expecting him to be smaller than men I've been with that were my size (5'5"). My issue is that I want to have a relationship with him, but good old fashioned penis in vagina sex is what I like and what gets me off the best...All I wanted from this post was some legit options and tips. I'm willing to try anything to make this work and make the sex work. When I said I'd find somebody else I didn't mean that I was already looking...but honestly a relationship without sex isn't going to work for me. And sex without the big O isn't going to work either. I need tips! For example if somebody told me to try getting on top and moving a certain way, I would try that...I'm open to any REAL suggestions. I can't stress enough how much I want to be with this man. Sex is important to me, I've been honry since childhood (literally, I used to make my barbies hump, well Ken and Barbie). I want honest feedback from women that have been in my shoes before. I'm sorry if it came off harsh and I did not mean to offend anybody.
nofool4u Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 So here's the deal...I'm dating a guy that I like a LOT. He's awesome in pretty much every way, except 1. We had sex for the first time a few nights ago...the connection was great, but his penis is not big, it's not even average. I hate saying it but it's freakin' small! It's not small to the point where I can't work with it at all...but I don't know what to do with it. I'm used to having a big one in my life...does anybody have tips/advice for me? Positions and such? Ways to make him last longer? I'm open to ANY and ALL suggestions. He's such a nice guy that I need to try and make this work...I'm super sexual though so if I can't figure out a way to be happy with his cock I'm going to have to find a different one. Please help! for you to be picky, you better have some big titties.
OldSkool Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Sometimes I wonder why people (with very low post counts) come on these boards and ask questions that can easily be googled... http://www.google.com/#sclient=psy-ab&hl=en&site=&source=hp&q=best+sex+positions+for+a+small+&pbx=1&oq=best+sex+positions+for+a+small+&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&gs_sm=e&gs_upl=833l9401l0l10753l31l25l0l0l0l0l1312l11609l4-5.7.5.1l25l0&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.&fp=74c63df26f863516&biw=1262&bih=665 Notice I didn't even have to define what was small? Skynet... err Google was able to figure it out for me!
Casablanca Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Ok seriously people...this thread has gone bonkers! All I want is some good sex tips... Facts of my situation: - I REALLY REALLY like this guy a LOT - I respect him and care about his feelings, I am in no way trying to make fun of him and I would NEVER turn to him and say "your cock is too small" - I've had 4 relationships, all of them were 6"+ and thick...this guy is 4" at best and thin...that is a drastic difference in sensation - The actual sex lasted only about 2 minutes (I understand 1st time being too excited) - It doesn't matter what I look like, big tits, small tits, whatever...he's not the one posting on here for advice, I am and I want nothing but sex tips from women who have had a small penis...is that really that terrible of me to ask??? I dont think that is terrible to ask for....Im glad youre trying to make it work...
ShannonMI Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Ok seriously people...this thread has gone bonkers! All I want is some good sex tips... Facts of my situation: - I REALLY REALLY like this guy a LOT - I respect him and care about his feelings, I am in no way trying to make fun of him and I would NEVER turn to him and say "your cock is too small" - I've had 4 relationships, all of them were 6"+ and thick...this guy is 4" at best and thin...that is a drastic difference in sensation - The actual sex lasted only about 2 minutes (I understand 1st time being too excited) - It doesn't matter what I look like, big tits, small tits, whatever...he's not the one posting on here for advice, I am and I want nothing but sex tips from women who have had a small penis...is that really that terrible of me to ask??? Bonkers is right. A lot of people are up in arms about this small penis subject. My guess is these particular people are lacking in that particular department and feel the need to be defensive. You never stated that you wanted to break up with this man over his small package. You're asking for advice on how to make the sex good, so F*CKING CHILL OUT PEOPLE!!
plowguy1 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 (edited) I guess this guy is lucky, he is 6 2" and built. Imagine if he was 5 10" like me and not so built. He probably is so happy he got to this point, said all the right things, fun dates etc. wait what am I saying, hes a big guy he doesnt need to do all that.. This is a guy she Really Really likes. But if he did, its all for nothing. I guess its better than having 3 kids with her, then she realizes how much she needs a big cock. I want to get off this planet... and Shannon you're right a lot of guys do have this problem, it would be better if we had some horrible disfigurement I guess Edited September 21, 2011 by plowguy1
ShannonMI Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 I guess this guy is lucky, he is 6 2" and built. Imagine if he was 5 10" like me and not so built. He probably is so happy he got to this point, said all the right things, fun dates etc. wait what am I saying, hes a big guy he doesnt need to do all that.. This is a guy she Really Really likes. But if he did, its all for nothing. I guess its better than having 3 kids with her, then she realizes how much she needs a big cock. I want to get off this planet... and Shannon you're right a lot of guys do have this problem, it would be better if we had some horrible disfigurement I guess Yeah and a lot of these men are on this particular thread acting like @ssholes. Now if this girl wanted to breakup with this small packaged guy then yes, I could understand the defensiveness, but she's not. Everyone needs to just relax.
betterdeal Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 My issue is that I want to have a relationship with him, but good old fashioned penis in vagina sex is what I like and what gets me off the best...All I wanted from this post was some legit options and tips. I'm willing to try anything to make this work and make the sex work. Try Viagra or Cialis. Even if his PE is psychological they can help him overcome that hurdle and may even add some girth to his cock. The grabbing the headboard and really ramming it home (or as one girlfriend described it, "trying find get an extra half inch in") thing definitely steps it up a grade to simultaneous orgasm territory. It may be embarrassing talking about this, but if you two can work as a team rather than as two separate entities, you can have a lot of fun experimenting and trying along the way. And be pretty explicit in what you say - if what you want is for him to take the lead and roger you silly then say so! You can have a conversation to get the ideas across then practice, practice, practice, even if some practice is a bit mundane, we all have off days, right?
snug.bunny Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 I think her initial post, ending with "I'm super sexual though so if I can't figure out a way to be happy with his cock I'm going to have to find a different one", is what rubbed some people the wrong way.... I have no personal experience with this, because it has always been a non-issue (penis size).
Sanman Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 i thought that was the crying icon...those blue spots sure do look like tears to me They are tears...because the smiley is laughing so hard. Scroll over the smiley and you will see the label 'laughing my a** off'
betterdeal Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 and Shannon you're right a lot of guys do have this problem, it would be better if we had some horrible disfigurement I guess By definition precisiley half of all men are below average. Sure, it's the prevalent culture now for women to unashamedly bang on about wanting a big cock, but in the 80s it was the other way around - men would scoff at big clunges as being like throwing a skittle down a corridor and such like. Both are crude, insensitive and cheap IMO. So accept that size matters, somewhat more and somewhat less, to some, and if a woman bangs on about it and that makes you uncomfortable, tick her off your potentials list, and move on. No point getting angry about it, is there?
ShannonMI Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 I think her initial post, ending with "I'm super sexual though so if I can't figure out a way to be happy with his cock I'm going to have to find a different one", is what rubbed some people the wrong way.... I have no personal experience with this, because it has always been a non-issue (penis size). But she's also asking for advice on how to still enjoy having sex with him because she likes him. Small d*ck and all. Maybe if she can't find a way to be satisfied with his package she'll have to find a different, bigger one. Gotta give her credit for trying to make it work.
chphan Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Bonkers is right. A lot of people are up in arms about this small penis subject. My guess is these particular people are lacking in that particular department and feel the need to be defensive. You never stated that you wanted to break up with this man over his small package. You're asking for advice on how to make the sex good, so F*CKING CHILL OUT PEOPLE!! What are you talking about? Did you not even read her post? I'm super sexual though so if I can't figure out a way to be happy with his cock I'm going to have to find a different one. Please help! That suggest to me that she was willing to break up with him over his penis being small. She just want an alternative before she resort to that.
js77 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 - I REALLY REALLY like this guy a LOT - I respect him and care about his feelings, I am in no way trying to make fun of him and I would NEVER turn to him and say "your cock is too small" Of course not, - instead you turn to a group of random strangers on an internet sex forum & tell them.
ShannonMI Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 By definition precisiley half of all men are below average. Sure, it's the prevalent culture now for women to unashamedly bang on about wanting a big cock, but in the 80s it was the other way around - men would scoff at big clunges as being like throwing a skittle down a corridor and such like. Both are crude, insensitive and cheap IMO. So accept that size matters, somewhat more and somewhat less, to some, and if a woman bangs on about it and that makes you uncomfortable, tick her off your potentials list, and move on. No point getting angry about it, is there?[/QUOTE] Exactly. Some people like different things. If you are a man and you like big t*ts you probably won't want to date a woman with tiny ones. If someone doesn't meet your requirements physical or otherwise then move the f*ck on. Someone out there will love you small d*ck or your small t*ts.
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