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First date last night. Showed me pics of his junk within an hour of meeting.

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Beachgirl8 Established Member

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Sooo... We were sitting at the bar and out comes the phone presumably to show me some pics from vacation.

He was scrolling through and then oops! Dick pic.

Ok- maybe it was a mistake? Nope. He made sure to scroll through and show it to me a second time.

Oh how I love dating....

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Did you respond with showing him pictures of your ex's junk?

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Haha no but that would have been funny! :)

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Did you respond with showing him pictures of your ex's junk?

 

Haha!

 

"Oops! How did that get in there?"

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Wow. Did you ask him if he ever gets second dates?

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Wow. Did you ask him if he ever gets second dates?

 

No, I just mentally checked out at that point and wrote him off as not boyfriend potential.

Well at least we got to the first date before he felt the need to show me. Last time I did online dating I had countless guys text me pics like that before even meeting. But I changed my profile to specifically state I am not looking for FWB or any such nonsense. So I guess this is an improvement? :)

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This reminds me of a guy I used to work with. He was trying to seduce one of my female friends there.. and he told her he was 'hung like a donkey'.

 

I laughed SOO hard... I told her to text him back and tell him something along the lines of yea... we all know you are an 'ass'.

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hahaha.. What a tool...

 

You should have said something like.. damn you're kinda small, I like 'em a little bigger than that :D

 

or made him go back to it on his phone.. and ask him a question or 2 about it.. "say.. that mole isn't a mole..looks like an STD"

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I'm so glad that guys keep doing this. It makes it so much easier for me to stand out as a normal decent guy.

 

Beachgirl, you should have called Guy #2 right then in his presence. "Hi. I'll be wrapping this up in 5 minutes. Still want to get that drink?"

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If it ever happens again:

 

squint, and scrutinize, and say,

 

"Hm. That kind of looks like a penis, only smaller."

 

His future dates will owe you.

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If it ever happens again:

 

... take the phone off him (to get a closer look, you'll say) and then hold it up for everyone in the bar to see.

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... take the phone off him (to get a closer look, you'll say) and then hold it up for everyone in the bar to see.

 

But before you take your closer look, get out your highly magnified reading glasses!

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Ewww what a creep!! (I'm glad you weren't posting this asking if you should give him another chance! lol)

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OP -- What did you DO? What did you say? How did the rest of the evening unfold??

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The worrying thing is that you mentioned the other day you had dozens of guys writing to you, yet THIS is the kind of guy you managed to pick?

 

You need to work on your character judgement a little...

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That shows a total lack of respect for you. Good for you for writing him off!

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The worrying thing is that you mentioned the other day you had dozens of guys writing to you, yet THIS is the kind of guy you managed to pick?

 

You need to work on your character judgement a little...

 

You're absolutely right- that's the main thing I'm trying to work on right now. I'm trying to pick a good one this time around so I don't get caught up in another dysfunctional relationship.

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OP -- What did you DO? What did you say? How did the rest of the evening unfold??

 

I called him out on it, I said "Nice one... You knew that pic was in there! Bad."

He laughed and continued talking about whatever. I stopped being polite, stopped paying attention to what he was saying, finished my drink and went home.

He texted me last night and called and left me a voicemail today, neither of which I responded to.

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Well, maybe he'll learn a valuable lesson. :p

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Why is this humerous? Why make a joke of such nasty behaviour? If it had been me, and the guy did not know me, I would have picked up the nearest drink and chucked it all over him. What a creep and a jerk. Actually, I would have thought of calling the police.

 

Is this meant to be a date these days? Well if this is one of the 20 or one of the 4 you picked, just straight peculiar.

 

Maybe it's my personality that is the problem and that's why guys feel like it's ok to do stupid things around me? I'm pretty easy going, I don't get upset easily, I like to joke around and be sarcastic. I make friends easily, but only have a very select few that i consider my real friends. I'm attractive enough to generate interest from good looking guys.

This guy last night was actually one who I wasn't initially attracted to physically from his pictures, but from everything I've read on here it sounds like I should give less attractive guys a shot because the good looking ones are more likely to be trouble.

Yet he still pulled a douche move with the pic. Mind you, this guy is 40 years old, college educated and has a good job, a clean neat appearance and dressed well. He claimed to be intelligent on his profile.

So it has to be something I'm doing wrong to invite this type of behavior. This is not the first time things like this happen to me. Maybe joking about it is the wrong thing to do, but that's what I do when I don't like something, I try to make a joke of it and forget it and move on.

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Maybe it's my personality that is the problem and that's why guys feel like it's ok to do stupid things around me? I'm pretty easy going, I don't get upset easily, I like to joke around and be sarcastic. I make friends easily, but only have a very select few that i consider my real friends. I'm attractive enough to generate interest from good looking guys.

This guy last night was actually one who I wasn't initially attracted to physically from his pictures, but from everything I've read on here it sounds like I should give less attractive guys a shot because the good looking ones are more likely to be trouble.

Yet he still pulled a douche move with the pic. Mind you, this guy is 40 years old, college educated and has a good job, a clean neat appearance and dressed well. He claimed to be intelligent on his profile.

So it has to be something I'm doing wrong to invite this type of behavior. This is not the first time things like this happen to me. Maybe joking about it is the wrong thing to do, but that's what I do when I don't like something, I try to make a joke of it and forget it and move on.

 

Damn he was ready to bring out the big guns!

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Damn he was ready to bring out the big guns!

 

No, I saw the gun remember? It was definitely not a big gun! ;)

Oops joking again, there I go!

eatNrM Established Member

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I always find it funny:

 

A pair of boobs, ass, legs, etc. turns a man on right away.

 

A penis picture does nothing for women:laugh:

 

But I guess it seems a lot of guys think women have the same thought process as they do, and figure the same things turn them on.

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No, I saw the gun remember? It was definitely not a big gun! ;)

Oops joking again, there I go!

 

They call me the pipe cleaner. I'll leave them pipes spotless.

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But I guess it seems a lot of guys think women have the same thought process as they do, and figure the same things turn them on.

 

I wonder how many guys would think that a girl who shows him a closeup shot of her cooter on the first date would be worthy of a second date ?

 

Personally I'd fly like the wind if some girl I didn't know yet plopped her labia down at the dinner table conversation... :laugh:

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