purplepanda Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 I'm writing a paper for a class and I want some opinions, please. Out of all of these, what are the five most important? Honesty Integrity Compassion Love Empathy Respect Faith Knowledge Wisdom Freedom Creativity Dedication Loyalty Success Cooperation Enthusiasm Self-Control Leadership Confidence Skill Sincerity Reliability Patience Flexibility Responsibility Hope Charity or Prudence? My top five are: Honesty, Love, Respect, Self-Control and Patience. What do you think?
Ruby Slippers Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Of those, I pick: Integrity Compassion Love Dedication Reliability Coming up with my own descriptors, I'd say: Passion Honesty Trust Communication Commitment
oaks Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Out of all of these, what are the five most important? Respect Just that one. Then the rest in random order.
missed_theboat Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Honesty Loyalty Respect Love Dedication I would add Trust, too. I also think that oaks is right, Respect is a huge indicator of many other important factors in a relationship. Trust, too, for that matter.
Pierre Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 I'm writing a paper for a class and I want some opinions, please. Out of all of these, what are the five most important? Honesty Integrity Compassion Love Empathy Respect Faith Knowledge Wisdom Freedom Creativity Dedication Loyalty Success Cooperation Enthusiasm Self-Control Leadership Confidence Skill Sincerity Reliability Patience Flexibility Responsibility Hope Charity or Prudence? My top five are: Honesty, Love, Respect, Self-Control and Patience. What do you think? I had this discussion with many male and female friends that had serious disappointments in previous relationships. Your list is extensive but IMHO misses many important issues: 1. Family of origin (FOO): Most rare exceptions men and women tend to replicate the culture of FOO. Others call this MEMES or inherited cultural traits. Pay a lot of attention to the family of your SO. 2. People that need external validation to be happy. Run away asa fast as you can. Look for people that are intrinsically happy. 3. Education. 4. Inferiority complex. Watch how the treat subordinates and waiters. 5. Lack of empathy is huge
FrustratedStandards Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 I think you're forgetting about sexual compatibility, which to me is VERY important. But from the ones you listed I would say Honesty Sincerity Confidence Respect Knowledge (not in that order)
Author purplepanda Posted September 22, 2011 Author Posted September 22, 2011 I'm writing a paper for a class about what I think the five most important are, and the values were listed for me. I would've said passion, trust, sexual compatibility and empathy, too. I just wanted to know what others thought Thank you for your replies.
EasyHeart Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 It's a trick question because none of the answers are "Boobies".
Pierre Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I'm writing a paper for a class about what I think the five most important are, and the values were listed for me. I would've said passion, trust, sexual compatibility and empathy, too. I just wanted to know what others thought Thank you for your replies. In the long run it is all about integrity, honesty, FOO, education, and sexual compatibility. Prior history of cheating is an immediate disqualification.
oaks Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 It's a trick question because none of the answers are "Boobies". Oaks likes this.
rightfield Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 Oaks likes this. And watch out for people who speak about themselves in the 3rd person. Big red flag for me...
EasyHeart Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 And watch out for people who speak about themselves in the 3rd person. Big red flag for me...Easyheart agrees.
Author purplepanda Posted September 23, 2011 Author Posted September 23, 2011 It's a trick question because none of the answers are "Boobies". Lmao. That's great.
madjac74 Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 Boobies are subjective! It's how she wears them that matters
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