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Everytime he brought her up I would think that I should just leave-leave and never come back. We had been dating for 2 months and sleeping together for the past few weeks when he went on a trip by himself to use up holidays. He had cancelled his prrevious 1 month course. As he was planning the trip he chose a city where he had "Friends". When he got back he told me the friends were actually an ex and her family. It was all innocent enough in his eyes, it was platonic, but now she wanted more. I was angry and hurt but forgave him. As the next year went on we broke up 3 times, each time I was jealous of his ongoing phone converstaions and her relationship with his Mom. Then I ended it on a trip because I felt inadequate, unable ot compete. Now she is coming to visit him, for 2 weeks, to "explore the possibilities" since I don't want to see him anymore. I need some self respect!

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Everytime he brought her up I would think that I should just leave-leave and never come back. We had been dating for 2 months and sleeping together for the past few weeks when he went on a trip by himself to use up holidays. He had cancelled his prrevious 1 month course. As he was planning the trip he chose a city where he had "Friends". When he got back he told me the friends were actually an ex and her family. It was all innocent enough in his eyes, it was platonic, but now she wanted more. I was angry and hurt but forgave him. As the next year went on we broke up 3 times, each time I was jealous of his ongoing phone converstaions and her relationship with his Mom. Then I ended it on a trip because I felt inadequate, unable ot compete. Now she is coming to visit him, for 2 weeks, to "explore the possibilities" since I don't want to see him anymore. I need some self respect!

 

So, he was seeing you two at the same time?

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