SugarLily Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 So I went for a drink with my friend last night - she lives away at Uni, so I hardly get to see her! Anyway - I explained everything about the break up, etc. - and she said that I looked completely different. She said I look like a 'weight has been lifted', my 'eyes are sparkling' and I look 'alive'. It scared me that my relationship even changed my physical appearance. The sun is shining - I am so, so happy today. I explained to her that I'm not mad at my ex at all - i'm not angry, or resentful. I just don't think he's a very nice person - and I don't want to be in a relationship with him. Do you know what? Dumping me was the nicest thing he's ever done for me. x
Mack05 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 (edited) Great to hear your update Sugar. It's amazing what people can see in our features (facial/body language etc etc). But so true. I looked so old/sad at the end of my last relationship. The worst thing was that I lost 'my smile'. Three months after I had been through the worst it, I was out for some beers with my best mate. I was laughing hard at something and he said "it's good to see the old Mack back". I knew that split second I was over her. It was the coolest feeling. Here was my breakup song. Sing with me Sugar -> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4S5w5DCAoI :-) Edited September 21, 2011 by Mack05
Buttercup84 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 I am so happy for you sugar ! Read your other post and I am so glad you're happy xxxx
Mack05 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Are you two dating ? Flirting Buttercup. She won't have me .. If she keeps rejecting my advances, I am going to create a new story under a new alias name. I don't want to give geegirls name away, so I will refer to her as ggirl or Geeg Gee is a very close friend
Author SugarLily Posted September 21, 2011 Author Posted September 21, 2011 Mack05 - I'm just so glad I got out now, rather than in 5 years time when I would have probably looked completely haggard and fugly! Hopefully a few good anti-ageing creams can repair most of what he's done to my face . Buttercup - I hope you got my private message! I do feel genuinely happy! All the advice you and Mack05 have offered has literally thrown me into recovering. I wish you all the happiness in the world! You deserve it! Lots of love! x x x x
Buttercup84 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Flirting Buttercup. She won't have me .. If she keeps rejecting my advances, I am going to create a new story under a new alias name. I don't want to give geegirls name away, so I will refer to her as ggirl or Geeg Gee is a very close friend Haha . Cute .
radiodarcy Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 that's great to hear Sugar! i'm glad your feeling better and that it's showing on the outside as well as the inside
Author SugarLily Posted September 21, 2011 Author Posted September 21, 2011 Aw! Thank you so much for the support everyone x x x
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