I want to ask for his number or give him mine. How?

[marigo]

There's a really cute guy at work, he's not really from our office but he's there for a couple of weeks because he's doing a project for his company. Anyway, it's hard to tell if he's interested because he is friendly with everyone. I guess when I say friendly, he does say hi to people he sees walking by. I haven't really heard him do small talks with anyone though but he does with me, so I dont know if that could be sign.

 

I'm a very traditional girl when it comes to these things. I don't and never asked for a guy's number before, nor have I ever given my number to a guy without the guy asking me for it first. But I have a huge huge crush on this guy and I feel like I'm under time pressure because I know he's gonna leave soon. I don't know if i should do it or how to even do it. There's three of them working on this project and I cannot just stop by his office because the other two guys are working there too. The only time we get to do the small talk is when one of us are passing by each others' office. Help! What should I do? I want to get to know him more!

[thatone]

so what do you do when you're not here at work?

 

wanna get dinner or a drink after work tomorrow?

 

it's really that simple.

 

confidence in women is attractive just like it is in men. if he's available and attracted to you at all he'll see you asking as a positive.

[wilsonx]

This girl actually caught me completely off guard Sat night that I met in a bar, we had excellent conversation and having fun, people kept walking up to us thinking we were a couple and we in actuality just met. She wanted to leave so I was walking her to the door and she kinda got mad and just blatently said "are you going to ask me for my number"

 

I flipped it on her saying damn girl, slow down I just met you of course I was but it was still a great feeling that a girl actually wanted to give her phone number to me. You should use this line on him after talking to him a bit.