jbbsw0913 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Is it weird that I would like a guy who would be willing to tie me up, and do "mean" things to me? Choke, etc. I want to be manhandled and I feel like a freak. Is this weird?
Voldar Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 If that's what you're into, then that's what you're into. Just don't let what you're into spill over into everyday life of others. I'm sure you wouldn't,b ut that's when I'd be like, "Okay, that person is kind of weird." What I mean by this is don't let you're interests that are far into the weird zone come up into everyday friendships and such. I had a friend who showed me something that interested him through a video on the internet of something quite disgusting, but at the same time piqued the question in your mind of "Why in the hell?". Up to that point everyone had told me he was weird and most people didn't like him, but I gave him a chance, after that video I had to admit he was super weird. But thankfully it didn't ever happen again. Moral of the story, keep the weird on a need to know basis. If someone doesn't need to know, don't tell them.
FitChick Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Contact CarrieT. She's into that sort of thing.
CarrieT Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Yep, that's me... It is not weird at all and there are HUNDREDS of sites devoted to helping (a sub) find men (a Dom) who would like to do those things to you. I am a sub and I enjoy being manhandled. I don't necessarily enjoy choking. Everyone has different limits. There are some people who like being branded, pierced with needles, have wax dripped on them, severe bondage, etc. It is a large community and the important thing is to find someone that will take care of you and not harm you. Learn to use a safe word and hold your ground.
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