Kathi314 Posted May 11, 2004 Posted May 11, 2004 In an e-mail, I recently disclosed feelings of attraction to a man I know. Up to this point, ours has been a thoroughly platonic relationship; however, I have done my fair share of flirting. He responded by saying he was totally surprised by my admission. Now, my question is, is he really that blind? He had to have known. If he did lie, was it because the feelings are not mutual? Why else would he lie? Thanks, Kathi
Beth Posted May 11, 2004 Posted May 11, 2004 The only way you are going to know is if you ask him. Some people play games, some are too embarassed to admit they knew, some are just blind. Tell him you are surprised at his response and were sure he knew. If he does not return your feelings are you going to be okay with that? He might not want to hurt your feelings, but its best a little hurt now than a lot of hurt later.
bluechocolate Posted May 11, 2004 Posted May 11, 2004 So many people get into trouble in their relationships because they make assumptions about what people should know. He cannot read your mind. You may think you were making your feelings obvious to him, but obviously you weren't. Now he knows. Why accuse him of being a liar?
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