The Blue Knight Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I agree. A woman who is flattering you about being better in bed doesn't have this kind of sexual relationship with another man. I was even a bit taken by her request the first time to let her sleep with this guy. I mean what wife would even dream of asking her husband that question, particularly if she's satisfied in the bedroom? If this guy was that bad, she would have realized it much sooner than by the 30th screwing. She's flattering you to keep you around. She's obviously insecure at the thought of being with nobody. You can stick with her but the likelihood of this happening again either with the same guy or another man down the road is very probable. Do you want to invest another 5 years into this woman knowing that she could be regularly banging another guy that she meets at work who tickles her fancy? Moreover, they started having sex this time. They slept around 30 times in the last 6 months. They had oral sex together (both ways), they always had unprotected sex, and my wife always finished him in her mouth. She also confessed to having an orgasm every time he went down on her, and once a vaginal orgasm.
SoulStorm Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 Hi, I am your wife. Your cheating wife. Thank you for sharing these posts with me, it is good to see what people think about me. Although it is sad that I entered a category of people despised by others. I despise myself, as you well know it. I hurt you and I am very very sorry. We had a wonderful love together and I feel so stupid to have destroyed it so. I tried to convince you in all ways that I still am the right one for you, that I love you much and that we should work on recovering from my horrible deed. Or let me put all my energy in fixing things. I honestly don't think about the "OM" anymore and don't want to ever have anything to do with him or some other guy. But you say you no longer love and respect me and you say you want to start a new life without me. And responders to your post advise you to have exactly this attitude. It scares me to think that you and they are right. I do believe I can still be an exception from the rule and never betray you again. But I surely don't want to make you unhappy and don't want to destroy your life. Do what you think is best for you. Love you How oxymoronic...you already did. He will never be the same.
country_gurl Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 #1 clue that this post is all BS/OP is a troll is the following: They slept around 30 times in the last 6 months. They had oral sex together (both ways), they always had unprotected sex, and my wife always finished him in her mouth. She also confessed to having an orgasm every time he went down on her, and once a vaginal orgasm. A truly devastated/shocked husband is not going to so calmly type the following, nor is a cheating wife going to provide such graphic details about the sexual aspect of the affair. Then we have THIS little "gem" below, from the so-called tramp of a wife in question. Who would believe any of this? There seems to be a significant influx of trolls posting in this forum lately, no idea why they do it. Perhaps because marital infidelity is such an emotional topic? Whoever makes up this crap is a truly sad individual. Hi, I am your wife. Your cheating wife. Thank you for sharing these posts with me, it is good to see what people think about me. Although it is sad that I entered a category of people despised by others. I despise myself, as you well know it. I hurt you and I am very very sorry. We had a wonderful love together and I feel so stupid to have destroyed it so. I tried to convince you in all ways that I still am the right one for you, that I love you much and that we should work on recovering from my horrible deed. Or let me put all my energy in fixing things. I honestly don't think about the "OM" anymore and don't want to ever have anything to do with him or some other guy. But you say you no longer love and respect me and you say you want to start a new life without me. And responders to your post advise you to have exactly this attitude. It scares me to think that you and they are right. I do believe I can still be an exception from the rule and never betray you again. But I surely don't want to make you unhappy and don't want to destroy your life. Do what you think is best for you. Love you
seibert253 Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 OP, Tamara needs to go by by. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.
Darren Steez Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 I'm amazed people are even buying this story..
sadcalifornian Posted September 27, 2011 Posted September 27, 2011 I think this is troll post. The original post was way too graphic, and WW posts her response on the same thread. I have seen this happen before, but this is considered very unusual. Although I am 99% sure this is troll, but taking chance on 1%, I say that OP must D her as she seems so callous and deceiving, and this is her 2nd offence. Also it seems they do not have kids together. It's no brainer.
Author medavoym Posted September 27, 2011 Author Posted September 27, 2011 This is not a troll post, unfortunately.
Frank13 Posted October 2, 2011 Posted October 2, 2011 Repeated, long term cheating? She is no good. This was no one time mistake. You are crazy to keep her.
jnj express Posted October 2, 2011 Posted October 2, 2011 Hey med---if you ain't "playing us"---then you need to get involved, and throw some input in here
sadcalifornian Posted October 2, 2011 Posted October 2, 2011 Also, the OP's wife(Tamara)'s post sound very detached somehow. It didn't seem genuine at all. Either the whole thread is fake or her remorse is fake. At any rate, I repeat what I said. You do not give another chance to the 2nd offender. Also, the degree and manner of PA seems totally lacking any respect for you. This is just her character. My advice is bail now! This woman is a bad news. And, believe me that she does not "love" you. She just does not want to divorce you. There is a big difference.
Space Ritual Posted October 2, 2011 Posted October 2, 2011 (edited) This is not a troll post, unfortunately. Well in that case, I suggest you take an add out in your local paper that says LOST: MY NUTSACK. Lost a long time ago after my wife she begged me to allow her have sex with a co-worker. Please understand that being a Beta Male is a huge reason why you are in this predicament. Had you acted the first time this came around and shown decisive action and showed your wife some consequences back then there is a very real chance you'd not be posting this insane thread.... I am not blaming you for her cheating at all....whatever problems are in a marriage the one who cheats is 100 percent responsible for that...However, by rugsweeping it and not addressing this the first time in reality, you laid your own groundwork for her to wait you out....she called your bluff and you caved. so it was only a matter of time before she felt comfortable enough to test the waters....you are nothing more than money and "an air of stability" to your wife.... Edited October 2, 2011 by Space Ritual spelling
BrighterDaze Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 I am sorry for your situation. Honestly, I think you should re-evaluate whether the marriage is more important than your personal happiness. She is a cheater and you will always wonder about her actions. Let her go.
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