SugarLily Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Hey everyone! For those of you who are 'familiar' with my story - just wanted to update! After doing some research, I think that my ex was going through the whole 'Grass is Greener Syndrome'. Yeah I know - 'I shouldn't be thinking about him - I should be moving forwards and letting go of the past' BUT This was a huge revelation for me. I think that people have an innate desire to want to make sense of everything. Figuring this out has helped me to move forwards immensly. The questions in my mind have stopped. I don't harbour any negative feelings towards him. I understand now. I feel at peace with things. He has to go and do what he needs to do. And so do I. Huge thanks to everyone who have commented on my previous threads! I really appreciate your advice! x
nini Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Hey SugarLily, what made you realise that? A part of me feels the same about my ex, especially after I found out that he created a profile on adultfriendfinder.com, but during last few months he: - Didnt want to go to work - Ate a lot - Kept saying the good phase of his life is over - Didnt like people - Thought people are bad - When his sister graduated from uni in July, he told her, the best days of your life are over. - Wanted to be someone else like bollywood actors on tv - Hated on people who according to him, had it made or had it easy...e.g. people on the 'made in chelsea' show - always feeling crap But maybe that was just coz he was with me, coz he said he'll feel better once we're over and he can have his life back. So guess I'll never know.
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