Autumn_Zephyr Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 I'm moving out. I'm not looking forward to this. My nerves have it an all time low. I just can not do this any more. I can not keep waiting for change. It never comes. It's been four years sence I've asked for a divorce. In all that time, he's acted as if it's all in my head, not real, not going to happen, just me blowing up and nothing has come of it. He's never taken me seriously. I'm done. I'm taking my girls with me. I don't have a job but can stay with friends for a little while. I think this is do-able now, not easy, just do-able. I'm scared to have The Talk, the one where I'm walking away.
Lis007 Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Is moving your children out of there environment the best thing for them? Can't you talk to your husband surely he also wants whats best for them? Staying with friends won't last long... it might be harder than you think. Have you tried marriage counseling?
bunny05 Posted September 24, 2011 Posted September 24, 2011 I can not keep waiting for change. It never comes. It's been four years sence I've asked for a divorce. In all that time, he's acted as if it's all in my head, not real, not going to happen, just me blowing up and nothing has come of it. He's never taken me seriously. I'm done. I know how bad that hurts and wish you good luck. Focus on your and your girls' health because that's what's important now. Get a game plan together and stick to it! Good luck again!
Josephina Posted September 25, 2011 Posted September 25, 2011 Big *hugs*! I hope that your talk went well, or at least as good as these kinds of things can. I know that for me, the key to things being hostile versus civil has always been in the timing and my approach. I wish you peace through this journey.
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