Jandrews Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Hey guys, Just a little bit of background info, I have been talking to a certian girl for about 3 weeks now. This is through text messages and seen her the odd time at work. She is constantly telling me how amazing I am and that im perfect and I should have a girlfriend. About a week ago I went on a night out with her she was all over me kissing, hugging, holding hand ect. But in the past week she has been acting very weird like very late replys to my texts or not texting back at all (when she used to text me back in seconds). And now shes telling me her phones not working and it be working in a few days. However I know her phone is working and she texting her female friends. I just dont understand how you can go from telling someone there amazing, perfect and also kissing them hold there hand, generally being very affectionot. To ignoring you saying there phones doesnt work in a matter of days. I just dont understand where I stand or what to do next. Please help me because I really do like this person shes amazing, words can't describe how happy I am with her in my life cheers
smudge21 Posted September 21, 2011 Posted September 21, 2011 Stop second guessing - you have no idea what is going on and until you do, every thought will be running through your head. You've made the effort and she knows you're interested so stop making contact now and see what happens. The last thing you want is to push her away and make her think you're desperate for attention. Just leave it for a bit - maybe she'll be concerned you haven't made contact or maybe she'll come back from her holiday and make contact (just guessing as I don't know either). If you haven't heard anything in a few days or a week, then maybe a quick text to say hello, but keep it short and simple. Nothing after that, then I would guess you may have to leave this one and look elsewhere.
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