maylis Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 I for example refuse to date guys in bands now because the ones I have dated in the past are pompous, arrogant jerks. I am sure it is not fair for me to do that but now whenever a guy in a band tries to talk to me in my head I'm just thinking 'neverrrr going to happen dude.."
Feelin Frisky Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 No one who carries a little dog everywhere, no inkers, no one who intends to suspend herself by hooks, no republicans* *non-political daughters of republicans acceptable in rare cases
Author maylis Posted September 20, 2011 Author Posted September 20, 2011 hahah, true I couldn't date a Republican!
oaks Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 What counts as a "type"? I still don't date the type who smokes, or the type who is obese... We did Dealbreakers recently: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t297083/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t289998/
Author maylis Posted September 20, 2011 Author Posted September 20, 2011 What counts as a "type"? I still don't date the type who smokes, or the type who is obese... We did Dealbreakers recently: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t297083/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t289998/ Ah ok perhaps it is something like that, I couldn't really think of a good word for it
Ginger Beer Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 I have types I wouldn't go out of my way to date and I could sit here and write loads but when push comes to shove and I meet them, if I like them I'm not gonna not date them just because I don't like something. Maybe I should be I don't think I could. But some things I hate are obsessive social networkers, the types who have an account on every site and upload 200 pictures of a night out and beg for adds. I hate the slutty dressers, revealing cleavage and legs and that sort of thing. It's not classy. (This one I would definitely refuse to date a woman if she was doing this.) I think that's probably it. The serial clubbers and whores would most likely fall into one of the above two descriptions so I'd probably be OK there.
oaks Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 No harm in discussing it all again, though. All the best topics come up about every fortnight.
mzdolphin Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Depends on your age, belief system and how well you know yourself. I don't date guys who smoke. Guys with a ponytail. Guys on dating sites who list age range of women they are seeks as 18-65. I'm 45 and firmly believe that the kind of guy I'm looking for would not want to date a 20-year-old woman. I don't date guys with very small children, as I do not wish to raise more kids. I don't care if they have kids, but at least teens. I don't date heavy drinkers, men who are separated (get divorced and be done with it) or men in bowling leagues. I don't dislike these people, but I know myself and the kind of guy who I want, would not be in a bowling league.
tigressA Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 (edited) Frequent drinkers/barflies/clubbers. I'm not interested in that scene. In a similar vein, guys who frequent strip clubs. After overhearing a conversation at work I'm convinced guys who frequent strip clubs are like little boys who wouldn't know what to do with a willing, self-respecting woman in the bedroom, so they pay to objectify to feel good about themselves. Homophobes (like acknowledging another guy is good-looking is 'gay' or being fine with lesbians yet saying 'Eeeewww' when two guys are involved). So immature and uptight. No thanks. Guys who don't tip at least 18% when we go out/are otherwise mean or rude to people providing us good service. Edited September 20, 2011 by tigressA
Pierre Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 I for example refuse to date guys in bands now because the ones I have dated in the past are pompous, arrogant jerks. I am sure it is not fair for me to do that but now whenever a guy in a band tries to talk to me in my head I'm just thinking 'neverrrr going to happen dude.." Women with tattoos. God knows I tried, but it does not work. Women with multiple earlobe perforations. Same thing as tattoos. Better to stay away.
oaks Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Women with multiple earlobe perforations. Same thing as tattoos. Better to stay away. That's a good one. I'll consider adding it to my list (as a red flag rather than an outright dealbreaker). I mean, how can you nibble her ear if it's full of teeth-breaking chunks of metal?
shayla Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 I avoid liars. I run from men who stare at women when we are out together, or say flirty remarks to random women when we are together. I have nothing for a man who acts like he is doing me a favor by saying hello to me.
Pierre Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 That's a good one. I'll consider adding it to my list (as a red flag rather than an outright dealbreaker). I mean, how can you nibble her ear if it's full of teeth-breaking chunks of metal? I agree, but it looks cheap.
quietGuy13 Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Women that act (like a bad kind of guy not a nice one)manly. LIke this coworker i had who used bad words, and tried to sound like a guy and loud and just nasty. And she would always argue with people . And did not work, just wasted time talking on the phone and arguing and fighting. I dont know what kind of guys would like that kind of girl.
j86 Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 I dont like dating girls whos only idea of fun is going to bars all the time or clubs. Not my thing.
EasyHeart Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Air-heads, immature women, liars and Democrats. Oh wait. That list was redundant, wasn't it?
Ginger Beer Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Frequent drinkers/barflies/clubbers. I'm not interested in that scene. In a similar vein, guys who frequent strip clubs. After overhearing a conversation at work I'm convinced guys who frequent strip clubs are like little boys who wouldn't know what to do with a willing, self-respecting woman in the bedroom, so they pay to objectify to feel good about themselves. Homophobes (like acknowledging another guy is good-looking is 'gay' or being fine with lesbians yet saying 'Eeeewww' when two guys are involved). So immature and uptight. No thanks. Guys who don't tip at least 18% when we go out/are otherwise mean or rude to people providing us good service. Why should they tip?
Disillusioned Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Party animals and players who pretend to be keepers. It's harder to pick them out online but pretty easy IRL.
ShannonMI Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 I for example refuse to date guys in bands now because the ones I have dated in the past are pompous, arrogant jerks. I am sure it is not fair for me to do that but now whenever a guy in a band tries to talk to me in my head I'm just thinking 'neverrrr going to happen dude.." Men who are cheap. I hate that.
Ginger Beer Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Men who are cheap. I hate that. Men who are 'cheap' and have small cocks (see sex forum), are you serious lol?
ShannonMI Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Men who are 'cheap' and have small cocks (see sex forum), are you serious lol? Hahahahahaha lighten the f*ck up.
Ginger Beer Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Hahahahahaha lighten the f*ck up. Men who are 'cheap' and have small cocks (see sex forum), are you serious lol? Note the 'lol' and the question mark.
ShannonMI Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Note the 'lol' and the question mark. Yeah yeah yeah:p
AHardDaysNight Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Racists and homophobes, most definitely. I don't find that attractive at all. Smokers and drug abusers. Women whose musical knowledge is top 40 radio. Women who don't read. Women who don't like animals (I am a HUGE animal lover, sorry, your loss!)
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