quietGuy13 Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 I just realized that my friend has forgotten about me and yeah, it's over. I can start trying to talk to other girls but i just gave Everything i have( my friendship) to this girl and she didn't really care. I'm drained... How do i get more energy to try again with some different girl. And where/how do i meet women to start friendship with? i can't do activities that are about exercise cause i'm kinda disabled. any tips?
motive2002 Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 hmm.. maybe pour yourself into your interests for a while. The ones you might have been neglecting whilst in pursuit of a female. It's very much "ok" to have your interests, whatever they are. Escapism for a while helps. Video games, movies, reading books etc. Get out of your own head for a while and do things you really like. Dunno if that helps or not
Imajerk17 Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Women are attracted to ambition. You might have a disability, but that's not your fault, it was just the hand you were dealt. Most people really feel what matters a hell of a lot more is what you are doing despite this and with what you have. You seem like a pretty smart insightful guy. What are you doing with your life, besides posting on here? What if you were to write a book about your life/experiences? It could have value to a lot of people, and I mean that in best possible way.
Imajerk17 Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 You're not the only one to get sucker-punched by someone of the opposite sex dude. Some people have lost their marriages and a lot of their life's work to a love turned bad.
motive2002 Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 And where/how do i meet women to start friendship with? Try meet-up groups in your local area. Google meetup. Chances are you may find a group for either singles, or some group for a shared interest or something. Can sometimes be way more fun than online-dating. Just an idea off the top of my head. Strike up a convo with strangers as often as you can (unless they look sketchy). Men, women, hotties, doesn't matter. If you work on your social skills and your personal networks the possibilities could be endless. Just keep your chin up OP. It doesn't rain forever. Sooner or later the sun will come out
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