monkeyshaman Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 So my ex broke up with me about a month ago and moved out of our apartment. I managed to stay distant from her for a while but after a few weeks she stopped by and we talked a bit. Then I left her alone for a few more weeks when she stopped by again. She was telling me how she feels that I might be the one shes supposed to be with and that her feelings for me are just as strong, the good ones. Then she started telling me why she thinks she is like this and how she is really trying to sort things out. Then I said that maybe we could start trying to work things out from a distance so that there is less pressure. She said that we could go out and things but isn't sure whats going to happen and still feels lost. So I didn't make any moves on the plan to date or anything like that when she asked me when we were going to go out. Then I made a plan for a few days later and she agreed to go to dinner. But I didnt want it to be just some whatever thing so I called and asked if it was a date, and she said yes. She seemed a bit nervous about it, in a scared I was going to say no kinda way. So now we are talking a little bit but she keeps throwing mixed signals like talking about sex and me living next to her and sleeping in my bed but then retracts them if I push them a little bit further. Shes ok with a little pushing but backs of anytime it starts to be a little real. I really dont know what her game is at this point, or if I should even be entertaining it. I want to get back together but I dont want to be strung along while shes confused. Or is she making the moves to reconcile and I am simply being impatient? Thanks for your opinions guys, I'm really confused at what to do. I am playing it cool for the most part, but I dunno how long I can keep brushing these feelings off. BTW our "date" is tomorrow but she might cancel cause shes sick.
wilsonx Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Its not a date, its a string along. These type of guys/girls find it impossible to let go. They do not want the friendship But go on it tomorrow, she is going to call and cancel it or shes going to be cold and distant, watch.
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