qinboxmail Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Okay, I've been with my gf more than a year. I wanted to marry her because I love her probably within next year. However, she said I don't have stable job and she's not out of school yet till the end of this year. Anyway, she gets annoyed when I talk about the wedding. She said why talk about it now when it's not even here yet and I don't have a lot of money. I told her well we should save money for the wedding and not asking her to marry soon because I'm currently working at a job that is not being paid good but I save toward the wedding. I tell her to save the money for wedding and she tells me to save it; it's not her job to save for the wedding since I'm the one marrying her. So what should I do ?
thehead Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Stop talking about getting married. Get a job and save money. Get out on your own, pay your own way, accumulate some savings. Ask her to marry you once you've accomplished the above and can provide a stable income.
Andy_K Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 She sounds like a real catch. When you proposed, was her response along the lines of 'okay then'?
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