Imajerk17 Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 (edited) I am doing online dating, and it seems to be pouring.... I went on a date that I think went quite well. We ended the date with a kiss. I'd like to see this girl again. I have another date tomorrow that I was excited about. I got a number of another girl who looks awesome. I'm not sure how to feel about all this. I feel kind of sleazy meeting up with another girl and turning on the charm with her when I just did this with a girl tonight. I didn't mean for it to happen this way, but I sent out 5 emails a couple weeks ago and got 3 responses, sometimes I send out 10 and get none. Edited September 20, 2011 by Imajerk17
thatone Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 depends on what you want. if a relationship is what you're looking for, ask yourself, what would she say if i told her? if the answer is likely negative, generally, don't do it. pretty simple, works for both sides.
daphne Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 You are absolved from guilt. You have no way of knowing if any of them will work out. Don't be insincere. Just visit your options, figure out who you like and think has the best possibility of working out, and sort it out from there. If you were sleeping with someone, I would say that's probably unwise unless you like misleading people or sleeping around. But on the first few dates, it's most likely that these women are dating others as well so take it as it goes. I've been there, where it was feast or famine. I blame it on online marketing. I would get too many seemingly great options. Then, nothing. I really just wanted one really great option for me. Unfortunately, the one that seemed the most likely, was too busy after a while of dating to only consider me his option. Maybe be careful not to multi date too long. You could miss out on a gem that way, who's not interested in dating half the city. Also, if there's a girl you really like that mentions she's not interested in multi dating , you may want to consider cutting off options. Just a thought.
thehead Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 You're a pretty considerate guy for someone with the username Imajerk. I agree with daphne that being sincere and being honest are important when you're dating more than one person. Go on your dates and see what pans out. Don't worry so much. You may find yourself down to one option through no actions of your own and you would have been tripping for nothing.
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