ffw Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 (edited) Hello everyone, I am new to this form & I need some advice. I'll try to make it short and clear as possible. Me & my girlfriend were dating for almost 4 & half years. To be clear, 2 years together and almost 2 & half years separately. Yes, I had to move to my own country & then to another country for further studies. But we constantly kept in touch with each other because we were truly in love & waited to be reunited again. We visited each other parents too & both of our parents liked us a couple. Coming back to present, because of studies I could not gave her much attention & we started to feel distance. She wanted to marry me & have a family with me. In fact, she asked me one time but I replied in silence since I was not sure about the future. My plan was to visit her end of this year and propose her to get married with me because we both love each so much. But I didn’t inform her about my marriage proposal since I wanted to be a surprise. Anyways, two weeks back she broke up with me saying she doesn’t see any future with me. She wrote a very angry letter saying our relationship is ruined because of me & she doesn’t love me anymore. This devastated me to the core. Also, she found another guy & in love with him & can see future with him. She also said she is going to marry him soon. I know she was very angry at that time so she wrote this way. After two days I wrote her a mail expressing my feelings & admitting that it was my fault. Also, if she gives me one chance I am ready to marry her & to have a family toghether. I also promised that I am not going to contact her again. Because eventhough I am in love with her, I dont want to push or ruin any chances I have. Basically, I went for straight NC. I know that she read my letter two times & didnt check it for last 1 week. Its very possible that this her rebound relationship. But I am still afraid that I may lose her. I still really love her & I know somewhere deep down in her heart she loves me too. We waited for so long to be united again & everything will be ruined now. Am i approaching the problem in the right way? Is it too late? Shall I visit her country & approach her. Since action speaks louder than words but at the same time I may scared her away. Shall I just keep on waiting till she contacts me in the future? I know if she contacts me in the future it will be as a sign of reunion. Any help will be greatly appreciated. Thank you. Edited September 19, 2011 by ffw
ls32ssibm Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 "Anyways, two weeks back she broke up with me saying she doesn’t see any future with me. She wrote a very angry letter saying our relationship is ruined because of me & she doesn’t love me anymore. This devastated me to the core. Also, she found another guy & in love with him & can see future with him. She also said she is going to marry him soon. I know she was very angry at that time so she wrote this way. " May be time to let her go.
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