craw Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 Dear LS, I come to you asking for your opinion or experiences on how you balanced your love life and friends! Ever since, I've been happily in a relationship - it seems as if I don't really care to see friends as much [mainly cause they all want to party and I don't want to!] pls&ty
thatone Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 you are what we would call "normal" and people who frequently take weekends away from their S/O in order to hang around with friends are what we call "about to be single again".
Pasttense Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 People are better off if they have a balance in their lives, so I suggest you not neglect your friends. You might look into what activities both your SO and friends would enjoy doing together.
Cee Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 I struggle with the friend/boyfriend balance. My boyfriend and I socialize with each other's friends maybe once a week. And I try to do something solo with friends at least once a week. It gets to be mayhem sometimes because I'm running from thing to thing, but I want it all - my boyfriend and my friends. By the way, I had to stop seeing a lot of acquaintances. It was too superficial and I didn't have time for sort of friends. I stick only with my closest friends and maybe once a month do something with the extended circle.
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