Is something wrong with me?

[without]

I'm 20.i am an university student ,this year is my third year there.

Before going to uni ,i was a complete geek,and my teachers would say don't date until you're 18 and you have succeeded going to a uni.

I never dated before.and my uni is so small,honestly the ppl in it,all suck.i don't go anywhere else,just everyday i have to go to uni.so from the first i felt to need to date,i started finding friends on net,even dated one for 10 months ,but although i never thought that would happen,he left me without any reason.

My family thought he was the best guy so whwn hd left you with no reason all the others suck more.also they are(my family)very possessive family,i told them i was dating him,they put so much pressure on me first that why am i dating? Then why doesnt he propose?then why do you date online you don't know them.

Now after that it was too heavy for them (me too) that he did that,they don't want to me don't anyone or maybe date someone in real life,honestly i don't think i ever have the chance for that,cuz i have to study everyday,anyway they also make me think there's sth wrong with me i am a bad girl or sth wrong with me mentally that i want to date...i think how do they know that need they got married when they were 17...is really sth wrong with me?am i bad?...

Edited September 19, 2011 by without

[KathyM]

I'm 20.i am an university student ,this year is my third year there.

Before going to uni ,i was a complete geek,and my teachers would say don't date until you're 18 and you have succeeded going to a uni.

I never dated before.and my uni is so small,honestly the ppl in it,all suck.i don't go anywhere else,just everyday i have to go to uni.so from the first i felt to need to date,i started finding friends on net,even dated one for 10 months ,but although i never thought that would happen,he left me without any reason.

My family thought he was the best guy so whwn hd left you with no reason all the others suck more.also they are(my family)very possessive family,i told them i was dating him,they put so much pressure on me first that why am i dating? Then why doesnt he propose?then why do you date online you don't know them.

Now after that it was too heavy for them (me too) that he did that,they don't want to me don't anyone or maybe date someone in real life,honestly i don't think i ever have the chance for that,cuz i have to study everyday,anyway they also make me think there's sth wrong with me i am a bad girl or sth wrong with me mentally that i want to date...i think how do they know that need they got married when they were 17...is really sth wrong with me?am i bad?...

It's normal and healthy to want to date at your age. Sounds like your family is too controlling and involved in every aspect of your dating life. I would suggest you be more private about that, and not inform them of every aspect of who you date or what is happening in your dating life. You are an adult, after all. And I do think it's important to make time for a social life and a dating life in college, regardless of how demanding your studies are.

[without]

Yes thanks for your support,they want to check my everything like im a kid..