A7X Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 Alright so one of the main reason I would argue with my ex is because she was always chatting on her BBM with other guys that she would call friends, yet she was asked out 3 times by those "friends". One it particular that annoyed me is a guy that I know just wanted one thing from her for years and years and always kept in touch with her. They would BBM from time to time, that I know of and it always bothered me. So one week after she left me she was with this guy (the one that annoyed me) on a trip to Italy. Now I sit here and wonder, wow she always talked against this guy, yet deep down she always had something for him?? She always kept her options open with him even when we were together?? She just waited for him to make a significant move to dump me??
M2155 Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 So one week after she left me she was with this guy (the one that annoyed me) on a trip to Italy. Now I sit here and wonder, wow she always talked against this guy, yet deep down she always had something for him?? She always kept her options open with him even when we were together?? She just waited for him to make a significant move to dump me?? Maybe. Or dumped you because she had a chance to go to Italy -that takes some planning! Whoever he was going with cancelled or something. But yep, either way she lined that up I don't know if I subscribe to this theory (maybe she does?) but someone once said always keep your options open until you settle down. Not my style but I can see the logic:confused:
Author A7X Posted September 19, 2011 Author Posted September 19, 2011 We were on a break and things were going great and changed in a few hours for her, from planning a date in the morning to bye bye at lunch (via text). Knowing him and I do since I went to school with him and we have a lot of mutual friends, he use to be a friend but that changed since it's the second time he does this to me. He offered her a trip fully paid since he has a lot of money and she took it. Basically they are just using each other and it's disturbing that she would want to do that with him, he's such a Dbag and has infections downtown and she knows this, she' the one that told me. I just hate this because I gave her everything I had, always treated her right, we were planning a future together during the break and this is what I get in return, being led on to then just blow up my heart and with this guy, worse possible scenario for me. Feel really disrespected, used and taken advantage of. I guess now I know her real colours and that should help me move on, yet I still have a lot of pain in my heart and think of her a lot and wish nothing of this would of ever happened.
M2155 Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 Feel really disrespected, used and taken advantage of. I guess now I know her real colours and that should help me move on, yet I still have a lot of pain in my heart and think of her a lot and wish nothing of this would of ever happened. A lot of us feel this way. The other person treats us bad but still has our heart. Doesn't sound like your girl was ready to remain in a stable relationship right now. I hope you are able to move on and find someone not chasing experiences.
Author A7X Posted September 19, 2011 Author Posted September 19, 2011 I'm fine with breaking up with someone because you no longer want to be with them. IMO there is a way to do things in life, you don't speak words you don't mean to someone who loves you, dragging them on and giving them false hope. You don't drag them on until someone else comes along, but those are my morals and values, not everyone shares the same ones.
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