Stallone Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 hello friends:) plz be patient with me, am gonna talk little about my personal situation hoping that u`ll help me in advice; I am guy, 30 years old, engineer, and i have a female neighbour about 3 years ago but we never talk or say hello to eachother!! since a year, i started to notice eye contacts from her and clear body language which i spent months to share with my freinds about wheter these signals are true or fake or misunderstood, they all say that was true signals saying she likes me. her room window faces mine, she always look at me eye to eye with focusing at me, and we she is surrounded by friends and i suddenly come , she just look at me for long moments!! i always feel confused whether to talk directly to her and break the limitations and say " hello", but suddenly i feel unrest about that, may be because i feel shy, or coz am afraid from her respone , or coz i really don`t know what to say and how to start a conversation with her. Finally, i decided to send a facebook message to her coz i don`t even know her phone number or email. i sent the FC msg saying ..: " Hi Fatima it`s me Stallone..ur neighbour..i just wanted to say hello coz we never greet eachother,..enjoy ur day:)" that was the msg, it`s obvious that i wanted from the msg to stay in the safe side not to be dumped in anyway, so i only said hello and i never expected not to reply, but that happened, she never replied to the message despite she opened her facebook profile many times after that!!!! After days, her father and brother started to greet me in motivated way and became closest more than ant time before..... Her mother always try to introduce her daughter to my mother!!!! however, why didn`t she reply?? do some people never notice msgs in theirFC inbox if it`s full? Are some girls feel shy to reply for this type of msgs? What next? do i have to start conversation with her face to face? if so, will i appear like a stalker chasing her( assuming that she saw the msg but don`t want to reply!)???? Plz friends i need a help and advice;
FitChick Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 If she is a Muslim (with a name like Fatima, I'm guessing) perhaps it's a sin to talk to a man so her parents are acting as intermediaries.
Author Stallone Posted September 20, 2011 Author Posted September 20, 2011 yea thx alot my friend we are muslims, but that way hard, we are open minded, we both are engineers. But that`s true, some of my friends said that she may find the contacting through FC is weird specially that we are neighbours!!! however, i have to do something as you said, but what`s that in your opinion?!! Did she probably see the msg on FC? if yes, does her response not to reply a sign of ( not interested) ?? if yes, that msg was just about " hello" !!!!!! oh plz am confused, but after the msg her parents suddenly became closer to me and also her brother!!!! Plz need a help
FitChick Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Continue being nice to her family. Mention how hard it is to find a nice Muslim girl because many of them are so shy. Maybe they will invite you to dinner so you can officially meet Fatima.
Author Stallone Posted September 20, 2011 Author Posted September 20, 2011 yea that`s true friend; but, yea but what if the " NO response" about the FC nsg was a sign of " NOt interested, then my next step towards her will make me appear like a Stalker or may be she feels am chasing her??????
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