ImThinkingWTF Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t261842/ ....You already asked this same exact question in Jan.
DorothyGail Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t261842/ ....You already asked this same exact question in Jan. I think you have too much time on your hands.
ImThinkingWTF Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 If you scroll to the bottom of this page under "similar threads" his previous thread is the first one listed. No need for the snide remark.
Easyguy14 Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 I have no problem with you dating who you want to date, but when you do date interacial why is it always the thug? Why not a decent black man with a job that has things going for himself. I see lots of extremely hot women dating thugs so there has to be an attraction. So what is it? maybe you're seeing very young immature women like video music girls? Im quite versatile in the dating field, have dated a few white women and they had no interest in thugs whatsoever. mostly the girls from the ghettos did this kind of thing, black or white.
DorothyGail Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 If you scroll to the bottom of this page under "similar threads" his previous thread is the first one listed. No need for the snide remark. I don't care that much to look. Nothing snide about it.
Breezie Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 I have no problem with you dating who you want to date, but when you do date interacial why is it always the thug? Why not a decent black man with a job that has things going for himself. I see lots of extremely hot women dating thugs so there has to be an attraction. So what is it? As a white woman who prefers dating black men, I have dated both the "thug" and the decent black man who has a job and life in order. I enjoyed hitting the clubs, and all that stuff with the "thug" guy, but in the end got tired of paying for everything, dealing w/ his baby momma drama, him not having a car, etc. My attraction was more lust than something deeper. Now I am dating the polar opposite of a thug- an incredibly handsome, well educated, excellent job, has his stuff guy who treats me INCREDIBLE. I've never been happier. So, THAT is my preference now
OnyxSnowfall Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 I don't care that much to look. Nothing snide about it. (I bet it didn't take much longer than this reply for s/he to notice the OP's other post at the bottom of the page... you simply made an inaccurate claim)
DorothyGail Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 (edited) (I bet it didn't take much longer than this reply for s/he to notice the OP's other post at the bottom of the page... you simply made an inaccurate claim) don't think its a big deal.. thats all Edited September 19, 2011 by DorothyGail
wezol Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 Not really. Kids tend to emulate the behaviour of their role models. If the "role model" happens to be some gyrating ape man they see on television...dressed in pants that are about 10 sizes too large and wearing 10 pounds worth of gold jewelry....well, then that's what kids will consider "cool" and gravitate towards. I misread your initial post then. I for some reason read that it applied to all kids. Now I see what you meant. Fair enough.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 I have no problem with you dating who you want to date Now we know this part to be a lie.
D-Lish Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 I bet OP thinks every black man who speaks slang is a thug. I'm actually half "black" as well and I can't help but feel a slightly offended by this thread. Why is it that OP is only concerned with white women dating "thugs"? To me, a thug is a dead beat criminal, prone to violence- and someone you'd want to stay away from. I too find it offensive that it's being used in conjuction to describe "black men". MrNate approves of this post. I heard your message before it was gone:D
lino Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 From what I've seen, this sort of behaviour has nothing to do with race or skin colour. Most women will fall over themselves for a violent and criminally-minded man, regardless of his race or nationality. Having said that, in my country the black community doesn't exist and I've never been to America.
Yamaha Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 gyrating ape man they see on television U sir have issues, racial issues.
D-Lish Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 From what I've seen, this sort of behaviour has nothing to do with race or skin colour. Most women will fall over themselves for a violent and criminally-minded man, regardless of his race or nationality. Having said that, in my country the black community doesn't exist and I've never been to America. Well then, considering your Continent was the original penal colony for the ostracized UK criminals... Women must have a lot of choice considering where you are situated :-D
AHardDaysNight Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 This is an extremely racist thread. I'm sorry, but there are just as many white and asian and [insert other ethnicity here] people who are thugs. And have you ever thought about the women themselves? Perhaps they are not so nice people?
Woggle Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 This is an extremely racist thread. I'm sorry, but there are just as many white and asian and [insert other ethnicity here] people who are thugs. And have you ever thought about the women themselves? Perhaps they are not so nice people? I fully agree but there are some women who lust after stereotypes. They are not different than white men with an asian fetish.
SteveC80 Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 This is an extremely racist thread. I'm sorry, but there are just as many white and asian and [insert other ethnicity here] people who are thugs. Not judgign by statistics,we can be pc all we want but some communites have more crime and crimianls then others black urban areas have more crime then most Doesnt mean all black guys are thugs at all but lets not act like certain cultures/communites arent more prone to violence the others
Feelsgoodman Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 I'm sorry, but there are just as many white and asian and [insert other ethnicity here] people who are thugs. And you should be sorry...for pulling facts out of your @ss. FBI statistics disagree with your amusing PC theory.
Content Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Women like anyhting thats popular and unfortuantely with hiphop music the word thug has bene glamorized at times
D-Lish Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Women like anyhting thats popular and unfortuantely with hiphop music the word thug has bene glamorized at times News to me. Might be true for clothes, but not for human beings. Any women that would choose to date a thug have issues of their own. A Thug is a violent criminal, I fail to see what is attractive about that. I have a good, well paying job, I have two Degrees and 2 Diplomas- the thought of dating a gun weilding Thug isn't on my list of the kind of man I'd ever want to get entangled with. The very first thing I think we all need to do here is clarify that a Thug is a criminal regardless of race and not associate the term with black men only. Not cool.
Feelsgoodman Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 News to me. Might be true for clothes, but not for human beings. Yeah, it's news to you. But just because you live in a bubble doesn't mean the rest of us do too. Do you honestly think that social trends do not affect what sort of men women choose to date? How do you explain the fact that in years past, when blacks were seen as an inferior servant race, no white woman would be caught dead dating a black man...and now that being black is considered "cool", interracial relationships between black men and white women have become incredibly widespread? The very first thing I think we all need to do here is clarify that a Thug is a criminal regardless of race and not associate the term with black men only. Not cool. The word "thug", as used by the the OP, does not necessarily imply actual criminality. In modern use, the word "thug" denotes a black man who looks like he just walked off the set of a hip hop video. It's all about the image, not one's actual criminal record...most of these so-called thugs are nothing but wannabes anyway.
Woggle Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Most true thugs who are heavily into crime do not look like thugs. Do a search on drug kingpins and most of them are nerdy looking guys. To be fair white guys who act like thugs are considered cool. Looking like a Jersey Shore reject is considered cool these days.
FrustratedStandards Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 I would guess its the "bad boy" appeal. But I don't date thugs, nor do I date black guys. I like Eastern Europeans.
lino Posted September 20, 2011 Posted September 20, 2011 Well then, considering your Continent was the original penal colony for the ostracized UK criminals... Women must have a lot of choice considering where you are situated :-D you're not wrong there. Though stealing some pieces of food wouldn't get a guy too far with the ladies these days
Author singlelife Posted September 23, 2011 Author Posted September 23, 2011 Because they don't like their privileged suburban life and want to go on an urban safari. When things get a little too street for them they then cry and act like an innocent victim. Now that's funny. I little out there, but maybe there is something to this. IDK.
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