Hurting123 Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 It's going to be three weeks NC. Do I want her back. Yeh She didnt want to be in a relationship right now in her life after coming back from a 1 month holiday overseas. But I've been strong with NC But it's her birthday coming up. Should I text a short happy birthday Or will that push her away more I'm sure it's over between us but I went NC with a daily goal that I would wait until her birthday coming up. One last chance at sparking her emotions. Just a personal message saying "happy birthday!" Nothing more nothing less. It's manipulative of me but she shares her birthday with a twin sister who no doubt is going to be getting kisses and hugs from her fiancé boyfriend. Do you miss it now !!?
danceallday Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 Hurting - My bday is coming up and I have no idea of my ex will contact me. My ex from before him always, always emails me to wish me a happy birthday and I appreciate it and it shows me what a considerate and kind person he is. He is a good guy and will always have a special place in my heart. You should send your ex a happy birthday message only if you want to. Not to manipulate, but to show you care.
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