Landknecht Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 I've only been dating this girl for three months but she'll often get mad at me for what I see as very small slights. I forgave several of them because I just saw it as her having a lot on her mind. For example, the first time she was having a massive disagreement with her mother over the course of a week, I meanwhile was getting upset with a friend of hers who would constantly flirt with her and made the choice to demand that she stop talking to him because he was stressing me out with his constant attempts to come onto her. I later felt bad about being so forceful and just said she can do what she wants but that I'd really prefer he start being ignored. She gets really upset and says that I don't care about her anymore and we fight over the weekend. I just put it down to her problems with her mother and move on from it. Another time, we were drinking and I accidentally drank something she was saving for later. I apologised but she was pissed off and we fought for several hours. I forgave her because we're a long distance relationship and I figured that the fact I was leaving in the morning combined with the alcohol was the cause for what I deem irrational behaviour and moved on. Today, We were playing a game together online and she said that she wanted to be responsible for a certain task. She gets knocked down so I jump in and complete it for her and she gets really mad and blocks me on MSN. She's been having a horrible week at work with her boss treating her like total crap but I find myself going "come on! this is a game!" This is my first relationship (I'm 23 for the record) and I have no clue what to think.
motive2002 Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 Wow, this chick has issues with anger and control. You really want to be with that? Also a guy friend always around hitting on her is a major red flag in unto itself. Yuk! No thanks I say.
Author Landknecht Posted September 18, 2011 Author Posted September 18, 2011 She can be really kind and sweet too but I don't know, I just have a feeling like if I keep allowing stuff like this to happen I'll find myself one day apologising for having the nerve to do some mundane task that irks her.
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