Hyperion Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 I am 23 and have never had sex, dated or kissed...but if or when it happens I would like to know if you guys have some advices so it all can be natural and smooth... Regarding the first time somebody has sex....what are or is the best position so it can last longer? What do you usually do in a foreplay? How do you know a woman wants to be kissed?
AHardDaysNight Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 I don't have the answer for this, being a 28 year old virgin myself. But anything besides doggystyle should be fine.
motive2002 Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 Young women are so much more sexually aggressive than when I was that age. If a chick is really into you, and she knows you don't have a lot of experience, she'll show you the way. Don't worry
D-Lish Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 Face to face missionary style is what I like the first time. I know it's considered a boring position but I find it very intimate and sexy to look into my partner's eyes.
AHardDaysNight Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 Yeah, women these days are very sexually aggressive. Especially towards good looking guys (which, if that is you in your avatar OP, you are a very good looking guy!
Author Hyperion Posted September 18, 2011 Author Posted September 18, 2011 Yeah, women these days are very sexually aggressive. Especially towards good looking guys (which, if that is you in your avatar OP, you are a very good looking guy! I appreciate your comment daysnight.....yes it is me in the avatar....
CarrieT Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 What do you usually do in a foreplay? Explore. Seriously; start with the toes - touch and kiss or suck and move upwards, slowly with light strokes, feather touches, and the tip of your tongue. Pay special attention to that spot behind the knees. and the crease of the buttocks. Rub her back and slink the back of your fingers down, from the top of her shoulders to her finger tips. Suck on her baby finger - then take two in your mouth, all the while looking in her eyes. Circle around her nipple lightly without touching it and then circle into the center to make it erect. Lick it lightly and then suck a little harder - maybe with a pinch. Foreplay is all about taking one's time with your lover's body and not being concerned about actual intercourse. How do you know a woman wants to be kissed? I've never known a woman who didn't want to be kissed. And the best lovers I have ever had have not used the kiss as a way to intercourse, but as an act in its own right; deeply and soulfully as well as playfully and intriguingly. Do it well and do it often.
motive2002 Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 Explore. Seriously; start with the toes - touch and kiss or suck and move upwards, slowly with light strokes, feather touches, and the tip of your tongue. Pay special attention to that spot behind the knees. and the crease of the buttocks. Rub her back and slink the back of your fingers down, from the top of her shoulders to her finger tips. Suck on her baby finger - then take two in your mouth, all the while looking in her eyes. Circle around her nipple lightly without touching it and then circle into the center to make it erect. Lick it lightly and then suck a little harder - maybe with a pinch. Foreplay is all about taking one's time with your lover's body and not being concerned about actual intercourse. I've never known a woman who didn't want to be kissed. And the best lovers I have ever had have not used the kiss as a way to intercourse, but as an act in its own right; deeply and soulfully as well as playfully and intriguingly. Do it well and do it often. Damn Carrie, how much per minute for your services? RAWR.. hehe
CarrieT Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 Damn Carrie, how much per minute for your services? RAWR.. hehe I'm free to a good home... Just expensive to keep!
Eternal Sunshine Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 Face to face missionary style is what I like the first time. I know it's considered a boring position but I find it very intimate and sexy to look into my partner's eyes. I second this. I actually get turned on more by looking at my partner's eyes. It is also the easiest and most natural in terms of angles and what to do.
quankanne Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 I'm free to a good home... Just expensive to keep! SWEET!!! :laugh: I just love your comebacks, Carrie! second her advice on foreplay, always a good way to go unless your girl explicitly tells you she wants to go straight to the chase. Just think of it as priming the both of you for the fullness of the experience, and remember, the biggest sex organs a human being possesses are their brain and their skin
krz12 Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 Explore. Seriously; start with the toes - touch and kiss or suck and move upwards, slowly with light strokes, feather touches, and the tip of your tongue. Pay special attention to that spot behind the knees. and the crease of the buttocks. Rub her back and slink the back of your fingers down, from the top of her shoulders to her finger tips. Suck on her baby finger - then take two in your mouth, all the while looking in her eyes. Circle around her nipple lightly without touching it and then circle into the center to make it erect. Lick it lightly and then suck a little harder - maybe with a pinch. Foreplay is all about taking one's time with your lover's body and not being concerned about actual intercourse. I've never known a woman who didn't want to be kissed. And the best lovers I have ever had have not used the kiss as a way to intercourse, but as an act in its own right; deeply and soulfully as well as playfully and intriguingly. Do it well and do it often. Got to print this and post it on the wall next to my bed.
torn_curtain Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 When a guy gets on top of me and holds both my hands over my head against a wall...our fingers intertwined...comes inside me as we make intense eye contact and then lies with me for hours kissing and sucking.
Casablanca Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 Face to face missionary style is what I like the first time. I know it's considered a boring position but I find it very intimate and sexy to look into my partner's eyes. This is great when actually making love/having sex with someone you care about, it is special...there are variations too, such as positions of her legs and the angles you two are at to mix up the missionary idea Overall just go with the flow, your body will tell you what to do and you can tell by her reaction too, if you start doing something that gets her breathing heavily or thrusting her hips, you're doing something right and keep it up
Art_Critic Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 My first time was when I was a teen.. I lasted a whole 3-5 pumps.. It was missionary but only for 20-30 secs - Then we were sitting up looking at each other
OliveOyl Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 I'm short so it's difficult to look in my BF's eyes even during missionary... usually eyes are closed anyway ... <shrug>...
Author Hyperion Posted September 19, 2011 Author Posted September 19, 2011 Step 1: Find the vagina. Step 2: Insert your penis into said vagina. Step 3. Repeat if necessary. Step 4. Make sure to cuddle afterwords Cool.... I got my own manual of instructions!! Does it comes with pictures?
D-Lish Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 My first time was when I was a teen.. I lasted a whole 3-5 pumps.. It was missionary but only for 20-30 secs - Then we were sitting up looking at each other Did your faces look like this---> Cool.... I got my own manual of instructions!! Does it comes with pictures? No- it doesn't, and if it did, the picture wouldn't be pretty. Just make sure to go downtown on a woman before you insert said penis into the vagina. Or after- doesn't matter- just make sure to do it.
somedude81 Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 What are the best sex positions for the first time you have sex? Jack hammer. Put her on her shoulders, face on the ground, butt in the air. As you're standing, use her face for extra leverage. Wearing cleats is not recommended.
Ginger Beer Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 Explore. Seriously; start with the toes - touch and kiss or suck and move upwards, slowly with light strokes, feather touches, and the tip of your tongue. Pay special attention to that spot behind the knees. and the crease of the buttocks. Rub her back and slink the back of your fingers down, from the top of her shoulders to her finger tips. Suck on her baby finger - then take two in your mouth, all the while looking in her eyes. Circle around her nipple lightly without touching it and then circle into the center to make it erect. Lick it lightly and then suck a little harder - maybe with a pinch. Foreplay is all about taking one's time with your lover's body and not being concerned about actual intercourse. I've never known a woman who didn't want to be kissed. And the best lovers I have ever had have not used the kiss as a way to intercourse, but as an act in its own right; deeply and soulfully as well as playfully and intriguingly. Do it well and do it often. But a lot of women don't like this and even think it's really weird and will cringe. You sure this is good advice?
CarrieT Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 But a lot of women don't like this and even think it's really weird and will cringe. You sure this is good advice? I do, actually. Even if only a few seconds is spent and you move on... Showing a woman you are interested in ALL parts of her body - and not just the breasts and crotch - is what is important. One of the most erotic things done to me (and I have VERY ticklish feet) was when a man sucked on my toes whilst I was wearing stockings; there was something about the stockings keeping my toes encased which made it that much more intense. If not the toes, those spots inside where arms and legs bend, behind the ears, the small of the back... The point is - don't just concentrate on the obvious erogenous zones and so many guys just dive in on the breasts or the snatch when the entire body can be enticed and beguiled and further expand the delights of mere intercourse.
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