momto3boys Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 Seems like everytime me and my soon to be ex-husband talk it get into a whose happier without the other person and who cares less and mean things get said that will probably scar both of us from ever having any sort of friendship in the future. Why do we do this? Why do exs feel the need to tell each other how much they dont care? Him, i think he really doesnt care. Me, i'm saying them out of hurt and anger.
dreamcity Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 My ex used to say he didn't care about this or that and I thought it was just to hurt me. Now that we've broken up I'm thinking maybe he really doesn't care... Anyway, that sucks. Maybe try not speaking for a while, until you can let some of the bitterness go. Or acknowledge "I'm sad, that makes me human, I mourn the [however long] of good times we had, but I know we needed to split and that's life. Anyway, that's more or less what I plan to say when next we meet. Followed by "now please don't poison the good memories that remain to me by being a jerk" (in somewhat less inflammatory language)
oldguy Posted September 19, 2011 Posted September 19, 2011 Anger, resentment, one upsmanship, the fact that you'd probably be arrested if you ran him over with your car like your really want to, come on, admit it, you really do, just once why are you seeing each other?
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