tiffanic Posted May 11, 2004 Posted May 11, 2004 I am very confused and am looking for some advice or suggestions, and possibly even answers to the questions that way on my mind. I got married about 3 weeks ago. I had lived with my finace for about 6 months before marriage, and he was great, not saying we never had problems, but since we got married, I mean the day after we got married he changed. He was so excited to make me his wife, he was the one that pushed living together, he was the one that wanted to marry, and now he acts like its nothing. He doesnt introduce me as his wife, he hugs other women when we are out, he rations the money out to me even though I work. He just totally changed. We argue on a daily basis and whenever I tell him how I feel his answer is to end it, when before we were married he begged me to never leave him and said we should never think about not being together no matter what. I dont know how to make thing turn for the better, no matter what I do it never seems to be enough and things just get worse. I just dont understand why he wanted to get married so bad and now its like he wants nothing more than to not be........ this is why I am confused and dont know what to do.
Dulce_Angel_Whispers Posted May 11, 2004 Posted May 11, 2004 I would have the marriage analled! He sounds like a control freak to me, if he could change so soon after the marriage with no reason what-so-ever I would be afraid of what may come down the line.
meanttolive4ever Posted May 11, 2004 Posted May 11, 2004 he sounds like a control freak...get out of it now!
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