Mini-Moof Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 :/ not quite where to start with this, I’m only 17 and my names Pete, and in about February I broke out of a 2 year relationship, Things Were so much Easier when we was in school, but as soon as we got to college everything changed, we always talked about kids and a family, we had been engaged for a year and our anniversary was on April the 24th, and on our 1 year anniversary My mum got married, So we shared a lot of special memories together, including the school prom, The problems started when we got to college, Other boys started to get to close and personal with her, and her way of dealing with it was to just ignore it, but they wouldn’t take the hint they just got more and more persistent, to the point where one day we was walking home from college arguing And she said well if u dont like it leave me, so i did, and it just slipped out, I didn’t even want to break up with her, but since then she has been with this other guy, who has been using her for one thing the past 7 months :/ sex, He was an 18 year old going to uni and he was a virgin (not saying that’s a bad thing to some people) but you don’t want to be going uni A virgin, but anyway he started getting close To my Ex before we eve Broke up and everything, but 7 months on, my feelings for her haven’t changed one bit, i still love her like i did when i met her, I’ve tried the No contact approach and stopped talking to her and managed that for about a month, but it hurt me more than her , but we always talk about how amazing our relationship was, n what it would be like to have kids So it’s like inside she still wants me but she’s also fallen for the guy that’s using her :/, we’ve met up a few times only for like a few minutes cause Her Bf gets really touchy and angry, he made her block me on Facebook and everything, but he’s going uni on Saturday and from what I’ve heard from his mates cause word gets around a lot, he’s not planning on staying with her when he goes, and she’s heard it from her mates as well as me, but she’s convinced that he loves her and that he wouldn’t do that to her I just don’t know what to try any more, sorry if this was a bit confusing to read, there’s a lot of other stuff that’s happened which I don’t feel like posting at this time :/ All Helpful advice would be appreciated And sorry for my bad spelling: /
silly_panda Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 Tell me one thing... What had you done for yourself for the past 7months..? Did you do any improvement on yourself..? Meet new people..? There is nothing you can do about her relationship with this guy... Now... If the guy really leaves her, what will you do..? Would you go to her or wait for her to come to you (if she ever does)..?
immitable Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 I am sure that she was giving hints to other guys, regardless if you noticed it or not. Anyhow I think, that she wanted to experience some change. The thing is, it is not over probably, but, you seem to keep hanging on onto that dead relationship. Let her go, don't interfere with her life, you have yours to live. That way you will improve and change, trust me the best thing for you is to let her be, she doesn't want a relationship with you at the moment and you keep annoying her. Make some distance, who knows, maybe all the memories outweigh but it has to be her decision.
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