captured_butterfly Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 Hey guys Just feeling a bit low at the moment and starting to question why guys never approach me or ever look my way! Was with my ex for 7yrs and finally got out of that relationship about 6 months ago, lost a lot of confidence and came out of it with low self esteem, something which ive been working on improving since then! Maybe its just because im new to this whole dating thing i dont know but ive never had guys come over and talk to me, never had any attention (apart from the ex). The other month i did happen to meet a nice guy at the bank and got on great, saw him 3 times before he asked for my number before dropping the bombshell he had kids, but in the end he never got in touch with me anyway! I just dont where im going wrong! I have a good job, own my own car, got my own place, i love snowboarding, my friends tell me im good looking (something i find hard to believe, maybe thats my low self esteem) I personally beleive im quite average, i dress nice and make an effort though! Anyone have any tips for me? How do i get myself on the dating scene?? Thanx guys for reading xx
Lishy Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 Being 6 months out of a 7 year relationship is not long, your lack of self esteem is probably showing on your face If you really feel you are ready to be with someone else then fake it until you make it ... Look the best you can look, hold your head high, have happy thoughts as that makes your face happy and makes you more approchable and when you see a guy you like the look of give him a little smile Good luck
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