Anonymous1338 Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 I can't decide if this girl (friend of my friend) likes me. We hang out on weekends when our two small groups merge into the "big one", so I don't see her too often (though she is in my calc lecture apparently). I don't know. What I see as signs may just be me interpreting it that way because I want ti to be that way. It would probably save so much trouble and just ask her, but if I'm really wrong about this, it will make things really weird. sigh...I hate being in this limbo....
Pasttense Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 Are you asking her out on dates? How is she responding?
DonJuanInc Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 If you're in doubt, the worst thing you can do is ask permission to make a move. If you're flirty with her and you think she's responding well, then escalate - try holding her hand, kissing her, or whatever is appropriate for the stage you're at. If she doesn't like you, you'll know. Both ways get you an answer, but taking action to get the answer shows that you have balls. Asking "Do you like me?" is really saying "I want to make a move on you but I'm not confident you'll go for it, so... what do you say?" If you've been friends for a while, and you REALLY don't want to make a move on her, approach it in a natural way: "Hey.. can I talk to you for a minute?" (pull her aside) "Look, uhh, I have something I wanted to say to you. I like you, and I get the feeling you like me, but it seems like (insert reason you don't want to make a move or you feel that it's awkward). So... what's up?"
Jynxx Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 No, you should never ever ever ask. In any situation. Start by getting her number or skype or a way to contact her outside of your social circle and take it from there.
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