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So how's it working out so far? Hope you've given it up though - that site seems uber sketchy.

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DON'T follow this advice. I have a guy friend who did this on one desperate night and he's felt inner shame about it for years. Also, a lot of women (myself included) would never be with a guy who'd touched a prostitute so you'll always have to hide this from a SO.

 

Prostitution is the 2nd oldest profession. Since prostitution has been a job for so many women since time immemorial; I think it's safe to assume that a very significant number of men have gone to prostitutes and returned to them. Prostitution is still an immensely powerful business(and very much needed)and I can tell you that I know of men who are rich and good-looking but don't date or marry(smart guys) so they have sex with courtesans, those goddesses of love.

 

For hundreds of years fathers would take their now-legal son to a brothel, and when you think about Germany, Holland, and several other advanced Countries facing prostitution as something as natural as breathing; you reach the conclusion that what you say is mostly bullfight and you simply do not want to have to compete with very beautiful, young women, putting out for peanuts.

 

Guys, do you know when did the women who didn't walk the streets began to use lipstick? Right after prostitutes made it a certainty on the brothels they worked in.

 

Why are women waxing their pussies? having anal sex? Blowjobs? For centuries, the only type of sex married women had with their husbands consisted in opening their legs and thinking of england, but with delightful sex becoming available to every man and his grandpa; women had to catch up.

 

How? By creating the sexual revolution, consuming the pill as if this stuff was water, and by banning prostitution ie, on the basis of prostitutes being infected with stds. Never mind that it is suspected by the medical community that the majority of the female population is infected with at least one std.

 

They must have gotten it from the men who visit prostitutes :rolleyes:

 

Lemme see; a woman who takes part on stds tests quite frequently to a woman who gets checked out mostly only once, right before starting a sexual relationship with her current boyfriend.

 

as for prostitution being icky because the women have been with many men... guys... most women lie about their sexual numbers. If a woman is in her 30's and tells you that she only had 5, you had a 0 to it.

 

if a woman under the age of 25 tells you that she had only had 10 partners; you add one zero.

 

It's also quite funny to see a young woman put prostitution in such a bad light.Are you that insecure? My grandmother once told me of a brothel situated near her workplace and that the prostitutes were highly respected by men and by women. Shame that the women who dedicate themselves to the soothing of men's pain are no longer treasured.

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So I decided to take a plunge and paid for an AFF membership...perhaps desperation...or just stupidity...I'm just not feeling so great about myself anymore...maybe amidst all the fakes and scams I'll find something there...probably not...

 

Feel free to judge me. :(

 

you need to find a way to quit this self-pity, it's just... lame. Women go for different traits in terms of build, height, race but we all dislike self-pity because no woman wants a man who is less resilient than her.

 

I don't know if it's therapy or perhaps moving briefly to a part of Asia where you can see how the truly unfortunate live but you have to get a grip. Maybe spend some time in a country where people don't have many choices and learn to deal with their lot. Wallowing is a luxury that's only allowed for time-rich, money-rich Westerners

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you need to find a way to quit this self-pity, it's just... lame. Women go for different traits in terms of build, height, race but we all dislike self-pity because no woman wants a man who is less resilient than her.

 

I don't know if it's therapy or perhaps moving briefly to a part of Asia where you can see how the truly unfortunate live but you have to get a grip. Maybe spend some time in a country where people don't have many choices and learn to deal with their lot. Wallowing is a luxury that's only allowed for time-rich, money-rich Westerners

 

 

I've noticed personally that the social lives of the poor are so much more simple. You've got a better chance at getting a woman in your life if you live a humble life in the country than if you're in the fast lane of urban america.

 

You can keep all the "complexity" of the modern world along with its "complex" women. I'd rather have this

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I've noticed personally that the social lives of the poor are so much more simple. You've got a better chance at getting a woman in your life if you live a humble life in the country than if you're in the fast lane of urban america.

 

You can keep all the "complexity" of the modern world along with its "complex" women. I'd rather have this

 

In many developing countries women are treated as property, they stay at home and the men go out and have sex with several others. They are also locked in unhappy marriages for life because divorce is shameful.

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So how's it working out so far? Hope you've given it up though - that site seems uber sketchy.

 

Yea, I gave it up pretty quick after realizing how stupid I was being...

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you need to find a way to quit this self-pity, it's just... lame. Women go for different traits in terms of build, height, race but we all dislike self-pity because no woman wants a man who is less resilient than her.

 

I know...I'm working on it...

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