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Going After Girls with Boyfriends: DON'T DO IT


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Yeah, she's just not that into you. Or not enough to dump her boyfriend. Why don't you go after a single girl? Is it because it's not that much of a challange? Do you need an ego boost or something? See, that would be a huge turn off to me.

 

It wasn't a typo because "two" isn't the right word in the above sentence. It's "too." Maybe she doesn't like you because you aren't very bright. College educated you say? Interesting.:cool:

 

Take it easy. You're setting off the local b*tch radars.

Anyways, she gave me her number and I think we're taking it slow but steady. Texting till 3am. She says I make her happy and she's making me happy. This can't just be a coincidence that she always looked at me like she liked me, even though she had a boyfriend. Never mentioned him, until I asked. Then a month later gave me her number, and now she doesn't let me go to sleep at night texting me.

 

Yeah, this girl really isn't interested in me. At all. :o

She is MY girl.

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Take it easy. You're setting off the local b*tch radars.

Anyways, she gave me her number and I think we're taking it slow but steady. Texting till 3am. She says I make her happy and she's making me happy. This can't just be a coincidence that she always looked at me like she liked me, even though she had a boyfriend. Never mentioned him, until I asked. Then a month later gave me her number, and now she doesn't let me go to sleep at night texting me.

 

Yeah, this girl really isn't interested in me. At all. :o

She is MY girl.

Bitch radar? Hahahahahahaha that's funny :laugh: No, but seriously leave this girl alone. If she really liked you she would leave the guy she's with. She's not that into you.

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Take it easy. You're setting off the local b*tch radars.

 

Mrgoodcat, this is a public thread alright. But don't forget your manners.

Take it easy. Anyways, at the end of the day you are going to do what you want irrespective what other's say...

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Bitch radar? Hahahahahahaha that's funny :laugh:

 

Funny and true. Zing! ;)

 

 

No, but seriously leave this girl alone. If she really liked you she would leave the guy she's with. She's not that into you.

 

I don't know if she left him, but do girls with BF give out phone numbers to guys at the store. Then text them at night. I can see in her body language that she likes me. She hugged me before many times, touches me on the arm during conversation, and one time at her work she kissed me good bye on the cheek. I am romantically falling in love with her, and I think it could be mutual.

 

I get the most remarkable arousal just thinking any sexual thought about her. I can't do that with best porn. And at the same time, I care dearly about her- I want her to be well and happy. Define that for me.

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Funny and true. Zing! ;)

 

 

 

 

I don't know if she left him, but do girls with BF give out phone numbers to guys at the store. Then text them at night. I can see in her body language that she likes me. She hugged me before many times, touches me on the arm during conversation, and one time at her work she kissed me good bye on the cheek. I am romantically falling in love with her, and I think it could be mutual.

 

I get the most remarkable arousal just thinking any sexual thought about her. I can't do that with best porn. And at the same time, I care dearly about her- I want her to be well and happy. Define that for me.

Well she's flirted with you it sounds like. She interested, but not enough to ditch her boyfriend. And do you really want a girl who acts this way? She's essentially cheating on her man with you. Maybe not physically, but emotionally on some level. Handing out her number and flirting. I'm sure her boyfriend would be none too pleased with her behavior. If she's doing it to him, what makes you think if she becomes your girl, she won't do it to you? How does that make you feel?

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Well she's flirted with you it sounds like. She interested, but not enough to ditch her boyfriend. And do you really want a girl who acts this way? She's essentially cheating on her man with you. Maybe not physically, but emotionally on some level. Handing out her number and flirting. I'm sure her boyfriend would be none too pleased with her behavior. If she's doing it to him, what makes you think if she becomes your girl, she won't do it to you? How does that make you feel?

 

To clarify, I realized she is still with her boyfriend. I thought I got a number because she was now single I was a little shocked over that. Even traumatized because I realized what a precarious situation I was in. I told her this may be too difficult for me to go through. She said she doesn't want to let me go and she won't. I told her I can't take the pain and it's me or him. She then said she doesn't want to hurt his feelings and needs a bit more time to resolve it. In between context, she said she likes me as much as I like her and she won't get over me.

 

Now, to respond to the comment if she will leave me for another guy- I don't know. I am forward thinking in my finances and work. With love, I live one day at a time. If she likes me as much as I like her, we'll last quite long.

 

Yeah, there is some real heavy stuff going on between us. It hurts, it scars, but the rewarding feeling makes it worth it. I will live it and I will learn from it. For better or worse.

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To clarify, I realized she is still with her boyfriend. I thought I got a number because she was now single I was a little shocked over that. Even traumatized because I realized what a precarious situation I was in. I told her this may be too difficult for me to go through. She said she doesn't want to let me go and she won't. I told her I can't take the pain and it's me or him. She then said she doesn't want to hurt his feelings and needs a bit more time to resolve it. In between context, she said she likes me as much as I like her and she won't get over me.

 

Now, to respond to the comment if she will leave me for another guy- I don't know. I am forward thinking in my finances and work. With love, I live one day at a time. If she likes me as much as I like her, we'll last quite long.

 

Yeah, there is some real heavy stuff going on between us. It hurts, it scars, but the rewarding feeling makes it worth it. I will live it and I will learn from it. For better or worse.

Well as long as you know what you're doing.

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Truth be told, I don't know what I'm doing. I am going pretty much on my instincts using any clues available. Fortunately, I seem to interpret them accurately, more or less.

 

We'll see what comes of it.

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