ledhead1970 Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 (edited) A year ago I asked out a girl but said she wasn't looking for anybody. Now a year later, she has been weird. Like when I go talk to her older brother (he's been really cool ever since he found out I liked his sister), she comes up to him to say something. And another time I was in the library and from the corner of my eyes it looks like she was looking in my direction (i could feel her stare). and also The rest of the year last year she didn't act this way. BTW I don't have any classes with her. and A lot of her brothers friends said to me "Oh he is going to kick your A** if he found out." but look what happened: he actually got fond of me. And I do not want a sexual relationship with her (unlike most guys these days), I just want her to have somebody to take care of and to take out to dates and to talk to. BTW, we're both 16. How should I start talking to her if I hadn't talked to her in a year? Last year, before I asked her out, she was all nice to me and said hi (like waved her hand at me very big) to me everytime she saw me. She didn't do it to no other guy. Why? Edited September 18, 2011 by ledhead1970
UpDownAllAround Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 Stop analyzing, grow some balls, suck it up, ask her out, and suffer the heartbreak like the rest of us. Geeeeeeeeeeeze. Of course I'm being facetious...but still...what do you have to lose? All she can do is say no.
Author ledhead1970 Posted September 18, 2011 Author Posted September 18, 2011 Why not? Are you gay, or perhaps emotionally disturbed in some manner that makes you not want to be physical with her? It is the expectation of teenage girls that guys who like them, will at least make some moves and try to have sex with them, or at least heavy making out at a minimum. If you do not want to do these things then to her it means you really don't like her. I am hoping you are just transparently lying about this because the women and educators in your life have somehow brainwashed you into believing that vigorous young males should NOT want to have relationship sex with women. Whoever told you these false things is wrong, please don't go down that road and shame the entire male gender by self-emasculating. "I don't want to have sex with her" + "16 year old boy" = FAIL. LOL yeah no one here thinks you really meant that but please don't tell any girl you ever like that you DON'T want to have sex with her. No that doesn't mean you try to jump their bones but telling them that you DON'T want to have sex with them will cause them to think either you don't like them or you're just some kind of wierdo. Which in point of fact you may actually be, but I hope not. Hell No I'm not gay. I just don't want to get into sex just yet, man.
mrgoodcat Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 I hate saying it, but you never know until you ask her out. If you get a no, then "no".
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