Buttercup84 Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 So last week I sold something on eBay and noticed that I still had a message there from my ex from ages ago . Being curious I looked at his profile . In a way I wondered if he was selling any of my gifts . I saw he was selling his iPhone . So being a lunatic I emailed him , being concerned that he has to sell his stuff to make the rent since I moved out . ( he said he will be struggling ) he asked me how I know it ( god ) and when I apologized he said it's ok and not to worry . I feel like a douche .I stopped contacting him after this , as I am so so embarrassed .
Mack05 Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 So last week I sold something on eBay and noticed that I still had a message there from my ex from ages ago . Being curious I looked at his profile . In a way I wondered if he was selling any of my gifts . I saw he was selling his iPhone . So being a lunatic I emailed him , being concerned that he has to sell his stuff to make the rent since I moved out . ( he said he will be struggling ) he asked me how I know it ( god ) and when I apologized he said it's ok and not to worry . I feel like a douche .I stopped contacting him after this , as I am so so embarrassed . It's a step backwards no doubt. You wanted to connect to him. You saw something, you reacted without thinking and you regretted it straight afterwards. Show me one member on this forum that hasn't done that? We all have Buttercup. The key now is take 2 steps forward. First thing you do today/tomorrow is get yourself to the gym (a run/cycle). Secondly do something positive around the house (maybe clean the floors or windows). The third thing you do is forgive yourself. You do not beat yourself up over this mistake (what did I say to you before buttercup). Do Not beat yourself up. We all make mistakes after a breakup (I made more then the whole site combined, it's why I post here so much. I don't want people to suffer like I did). Move forward Buttercup, this is just a little blip, don't turn it into a mountain..
eleanorhurting Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 I broke NC too Buttercup. But we are starting again right? And we are going to be stronger than ever I should probably study for my test breakups and med school dont go well together
TheDovic Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 Listen to the other posts, you're human with human emotions and like most of us on this site you saw a glimmer of hope and reached for it! Don't beat yourself up, just start again with nc
Author Buttercup84 Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 Thanks guys . Hoe you're all doing well
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