Persephonexx Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 My ex boyfriend and I have been trying to fix things for a while now, we even planned a trip together in oct to Japan for 2 weeks. The issue is he refuses to tell his friends or anybody that we're hanging out together. So I constantly have to sneak in an out of his apartment, because he doesnt want his friends to give him grief about the fact that after EVERYTHING we are still talking. This gets rather annoying quickly b/c I can never hang out with him unless we're having a quick lunch, and if I do sleep over it has to be at midnight and he has to wake up at 6 am. So he wakes up in a bad mood and leaves to his rotation in the hospital. We're always rushed. SO yesterday night we had plans to go out and he tells me hes tired after I waited all day and blew all my friends off since we never get to go out at night. I'm like 'alright lets just get dinner'. He arrives looking miserable and is super cold and annoyed and I tell him to turn around and leave me home. After he leaves me home I tell him 'Maybe you need the weekend to yourself' and hes says "Yeah thanks". Although he was claiming to be tired, I found out he blew me off just to go hang with his brothers. Today he calls me and asks me if I'm mad b/c I caught him lying and I told him I dont want to go anywhere with him anymore. He then says ' I just get sick of you, I cant stand you after a while, this is why our relationship never works out.' He then proceeds to tell me ' You worship the ground I walk on, stop talking and trying to make yourself feel better' when I called him back and tried to empathize with him and apologized for aggravating him. Why is he like this??? Why can he tell me he loves me one moment and then treat my liek total crap the next? He has no respect for me and feels he can just walk all over me... Many would say to just walk away... but I can't. Yestrday w e were supposed to go out and he picked me up to act like a douche bags and drop me off five minutes later b/c he didnt really feel like hanging out. He was being cold. Why would he tell me he loves me and want to be more than friends only to reject me constantly. I adressed him voer the phone today and he said ' Oh you worship the ground I walk on, I need to get away from you because I cant stand you sometimes.' What the hell?
Buttercup84 Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 My ex said the same , I worship him , and in a way I did and still do . Your ex is being an ass . Don't contact him and do your own thing . Show him you have a life if your own . He shouldn't hide you , don't let him do that . I dont think he is worth it at all .
M2155 Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 Well he certainly isn't treating you right! So leave him! You worship the ground I walk on If all that secrecy wasn't suspect enough, he knows he has you wrapped around your finger. You accept less from him than you deserve (I made that mistake) and he will never be able to respect you for that. Disappear and go NC. It will catch him off guard and you just need to drop this guy anyway.
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