AliceInChains86 Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 Once again im rather confused This guy has well seen me around loads at work, he started speaking to me online recently and we got on really well... He showed a lot of interest in me, we met up and had an awesome time! He texted me loads and kept saying he wanted to see me again and all that stuff... He even suggested coming round to mates after work if i was still at hers. I wasnt... but was out later that night (yesterday) I asked him to come out with for a drink or two, he said he wanted too but would see what time he would finish dinner. He later decided it was too late but kept texting me. We flirted a bit and eventually i was rather upfront and asked if it was just sex he was looking for or more as he confused me a little... He then replied that he wasnt looking for anything and asked if i was looking for sex or more, so i said more and he said he liked that... I asked why as he didnt want anything... He then replied saying he wasnt out to look for something on purpose, but if it felt right then he would go with it. And said he would just like to hang out with me more. I texted him later that night saying i was still in town if he wanted to meet and well i never did get a reply back. He came online and i said i was sorry if i put him off as i was a little drunk and he reasured me that i really didnt at all... And then stopped talking completly... Im clearly crap at these sort of things, and i dont understand men at all...Sorry if this hasnt made much sense im just confused to whats actually going on or whats gone wrong...
Voldar Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 :S Shows interest, check. Says he's not interested unless it "goes with the flow" check Stops talking, check. Well I'm not an expert, but either he's: 1 - Super Busy (but even when I am I get texts to people when i get a spare few minutes) 2 - Not that interested in you, maybe because another girl is talking to him. 3 - Something else, which would have me confused too. I don't see why he'd do all that then stop talking, sounds like he may be leading you on, but I hope he's really just busy if you do really like him.
Author AliceInChains86 Posted September 17, 2011 Author Posted September 17, 2011 I guess i should just be patient... But im sick of sticking around and playing the whole waiting game and all that crap... I just rather ask him to make up his mind and leave it at that. But i know thats rather off putting Clearly he isnt that busy as hes on Fb and msn currently and not set to away... So just ignoring me now?
Voldar Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 Quite possibly. He may not be that interested then. I can understand you just wanting to go out on a date. As much as I hate to say it, if he's ignoring you, then he may be hinting at you to leave him be and move on. He doesn't sound worth the effort as much as it sucks to hear that. If he wanted a date and said he did to you, then you should be going on one, not playing the waiting game :S.
Author AliceInChains86 Posted September 17, 2011 Author Posted September 17, 2011 I put up a status on fb saying "Pfffft!" and he instantly started asking me what was wrong... Soon as i said i just felt a lil crappy cause of a toothache (well thats part of it) he just said ohh and stopped talking again... GOD! SERIOUSLY! why do things have to be so complicated sometimes?
Voldar Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 I'm sorry. Dating can be a such a pain in the arse.
Author AliceInChains86 Posted September 17, 2011 Author Posted September 17, 2011 Well hes sort of talking to me now, said he wasnt up to anything at all... then got chatting... We then started talking about clubbing and men with one intension. He said he always makes himself very clear from the start to avoid giving someone the wrong intension. So i said it seems like you arnt really looking for anything... And seems ive killed the converstation once again. Yes dating is a pain in the arse!
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