silly_panda Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 My ex girlfriend tried to talk to me a few times through msn... I didn't respond to her... And just now she said she got 1 question and 1 request for me... And I didn't respond to her... And she said "stop being childish"... I told her before that I wanna heal and move on... For me to do that I can't talk to her... Am I being childish..?
M2155 Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 I used to say the same sort of thing when my ex started ignoring my texts. She is frustrated by your lack of response. I do believe after time she will give up but I bet you are curious about the question? And the question probably has something to do with feelings or else she would have asked on the IM. If you have maintained NC, don't break it. If for whatever reason you felt the need to respond to her IM I'd just say I'm still healing and would appreciate it if you respect my need to not communiate with you right now. Or you could delete her from IM (or do both). The latter would be easier for me to accept from my ex while telling me that would make me take notice that you are serious.
Mack05 Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 My ex girlfriend tried to talk to me a few times through msn... I didn't respond to her... And just now she said she got 1 question and 1 request for me... And I didn't respond to her... And she said "stop being childish"... I told her before that I wanna heal and move on... For me to do that I can't talk to her... Am I being childish..? No mate, she is the one being childish. Stick to NC
Mack05 Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 Why are you using my avatar, Mack? Cause I am having a joke with my girlfriend Geegirl
CarrieT Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 Why are you using my avatar, Mack? They are similar, but definitely different...
geegirl Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 Sillypanda, she's being childish and disrespectful of your need to move on and heal and somewhat selfish. You're not being childish. You're doing the mature thing by putting yourself first and realizing that this is not a game. Keep NC. If she had anything of substance to say, she's be an adult and say it. None of this vague mind games.
geegirl Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 Cause I am having a joke with my girlfriend Geegirl I'm sure she's tickled.
Author silly_panda Posted September 18, 2011 Author Posted September 18, 2011 Thanks everyone... She just said she got no question to ask already... I think she is just trying to see whether I will respond to her or not...
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