Buttercup84 Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 I signed up for this dating site out of boredom. I started talking to this guy who seemed nice and we might meet for coffee next week. He seems educated , and is a doctor.He is only here for a year but I am not looking for a boyfriend now , I want to be single. I think it would be nice to meet some new people . I am not over my ex yet and would take him back in a heartbeat. So I will go on this date and see how it goes. If he does not like me I would be hurt , will just keep on going.But in a way I just want to be alone . I am just scared of dating in future , even when I am over him.It has been two years since we met and I do not want to go through the whole drama of wondering if someone likes me , if they think I am good looking or interesting.
Fleabitten Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 Don't be scared! The right person will not make you wonder if you're enough, they will make you feel great. It's great that you have a date - hope you have a really nice time.
Mack05 Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 You are not ready to meet someone new, so don't be expecting to much. BUT it's great you are getting out there. It's part of the healing process, so have fun and enjoy yourself!
Author Buttercup84 Posted September 17, 2011 Author Posted September 17, 2011 Thank you both, am so not ready but oh well , might make a friend . After this date , no more for me .
M2155 Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 I did it recently and I'm glad I did. Turns out the guy I went out with (I didn't ask, not even sure how we got on this subject) told me this year he was learning to be single and not treat every date like a relationship...how ironic as I need to learn the same thing. (Screamed, not ready for a relationship which was ok by me!). Anyway, it was nice to go out with someone new without pressure or expectations, just to know there are people out there. Eventually someone will come along that makes you forget Mr. X never existed, until then it makes you feel better seeing that there are other fish in the sea and just enjoy being treated nicely! Have fun!
omkara Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 I am not looking for a boyfriend now , I want to be single. Just don't be surprised if this happens.
nini Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 Omkara..is your name based on the bollywood film??
omkara Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 No, it was a nickname given to me by a friend of the family. But I'm surprised you even know about that movie, not too many people do. We might be soulmates. Just sayin'.
nini Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 We might be soulmates. Just sayin'. Might be
Author Buttercup84 Posted September 17, 2011 Author Posted September 17, 2011 I vote we talk privately and find out. Oh how cute ! My thread brought you two together .
Lis007 Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 Good on you for getting back out there. I hope your date goes well.
nini Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 I vote we talk privately and find out. Hehe, sure!
danceallday Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 Good luck on the date Buttercup. Go in with no expectations and you will have fun.
mike588 Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 I too hope your date goes well, just guard your heart. I went on 2 dates shortly after my disaster but just wasn't into it. All I saw was my exs face, and could do nothing but think about her.Hopefully that will go away soon. Good luck, keep us posted.
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