When Meeting Girls/Women Online or Outside? Look out for these 27 red flags!

[betterdeal]

I take it she kept a video diary of the people she met, things they did, that sort of thing?

[EasyHeart]

I would never date a Proubty woman! Never!!!

[coolheadal]

How much is "overly"? Do you mean that, physically, she looks like a body builder? Or what? And why is it a red flag (vs just a subjective attraction issue) to be athletic?

 

Predominates (outdo) you, shows you up constantly, can run as fast you can (hope you can keep) most of these girls/women work out much more than the average female and live by a strict diet too!

[oaks]

Predominates (outdo) you, shows you up constantly, can run as fast you can (hope you can keep) most of these girls/women work out much more than the average female and live by a strict diet too!

 

A woman who can out-do me in my sports sounds like a turn on rather than a red flag. Your list is far from universal!

[coolheadal]

How are:

 

 

 

red flags?

 

Also, many of these aren't red flags, but legitimate turn offs. In that "you do that, I'm gone" way.

 

5. Tattoos

Yes some drop-dead gorgeous actresses can wear these Tattos and look HOT doing so, but in the real life only less than 1% average women can actually pull it off in any form. These include variation of girls that had ex-boyfriends, alive, dead in accident which they have branded his name into their wrist, hips, upper/lower backside, chest, breast, belly, upper arm and naughty areas too.

 

6. Women who Had Sex with the Same Sex

They had sex with women and enjoyed it, they might want a man, but still crave for a women still. So they want both, still you the man it's up to you to know this a head of time.

[AHardDaysNight]

Most of these are red flags...but...

 

What is wrong with bi-sexual girls?

[coolheadal]

A woman who can out-do me in my sports sounds like a turn on rather than a red flag. Your list is far from universal!

 

Some men don't like women who really all about athletic, also these women won't date large men (more pounds) pretty much go for another athletic men.

Some a well build more like Mr Atlas or some just so tone they're chest and behind are so slim. I have no problem with them as along as they have time for me in their tight workout schedule.

[Emilia]

A woman who can out-do me in my sports sounds like a turn on rather than a red flag. Your list is far from universal!

 

It would depend on how confident the man is

[AHardDaysNight]

A plus I can see with bi-sexual girls is that you can have threesomes or foursomes (with other girls, obviously.)

 

That is, if you're into that.

[Emilia]

I think OP it would pay if you worked on your insecurities instead of trying to find someone that doesn't make you feel so threatened

[oaks]

Some men don't like women who really all about athletic, also these women won't date large men (more pounds) pretty much go for another athletic men.

Some a well build more like Mr Atlas or some just so tone they're chest and behind are so slim. I have no problem with them as along as they have time for me in their tight workout schedule.

 

Okay, but I thought you were offering these so-called "red flags" as a self-help thing for everybody (and I got that idea from the "Look out for..." subject) but really these are just your subjective red flags.

 

I agree that "some men don't like ..." but it's only "some men", and being athletic (even "overly") isn't a red flag. It's just something that you (and "some men") don't like.

 

Although, you go on to say you have no problem with them, so that's okay then.

[oaks]

It would depend on how confident the man is

 

That could be it! It takes more than being able to run faster than me to intimidate me.

[rafallus]

Yes some drop-dead gorgeous actresses can wear these Tattos and look HOT doing so, but in the real life only less than 1% average women can actually pull it off in any form. These include variation of girls that had ex-boyfriends, alive, dead in accident which they have branded his name into their wrist, hips, upper/lower backside, chest, breast, belly, upper arm and naughty areas too.

Not every single tattoo in the world is of ex-bf's name. If it was, yes, I'd be put off, but not so if in case of, say, a butterfly, or a dolphin on an ankle.

 

They had sex with women and enjoyed it, they might want a man, but still crave for a women still. So they want both, still you the man it's up to you to know this a head of time.

That's certainly not universal. I value adventurousness, as long as it's carried out so that nobody got hurt in the process.

 

And hot girl-on-girl action certainly turns me on to hell.

[madjac74]

5. Tattoos

Yes some drop-dead gorgeous actresses can wear these Tattos and look HOT doing so, but in the real life only less than 1% average women can actually pull it off in any form. These include variation of girls that had ex-boyfriends, alive, dead in accident which they have branded his name into their wrist, hips, upper/lower backside, chest, breast, belly, upper arm and naughty areas too.

 

You went from hot actresses to 1% of average women in your debate on tattoos. Actresses arent the only ones who are hot in this world. There are many, many "average" women who are very attractive and sophisticated who have tattoos you will never see. And rarely do any girls have anything to do with a BF tattooed on themselves.

 

6. Women who Had Sex with the Same Sex

They had sex with women and enjoyed it, they might want a man, but still crave for a women still. So they want both, still you the man it's up to you to know this a head of time.

 

My SO had an experience in college with a girl. She said it was fun but she wouldn't do it again because she just likes men too much.

[coolheadal]

I think OP it would pay if you worked on your insecurities instead of trying to find someone that doesn't make you feel so threatened

 

This is not about my personal preferences this is for all those who are seeking someone either online or outside. I myself have ran into a few of these type of women. We all are going to agree or disagree and have some habits that tend to go beyond the 27 red flags. Still to each they own. I am sure you have something too but not going to tell us. Club girl sure, their is bar fly girl too. I didn't even add the one-night-stand type or the player type in a girl. Still some guys might be okay with all 27 red flags some won't. But no harm was intended just to show you what type of female you have out there.

[oaks]

This is not about my personal preferences this is for all those who are seeking someone either online or outside.

 

Yes, it's about your personal preferences. You're not sharing any great wisdom by telling me that I should avoid athletic women, in fact it's asinine.

[coolheadal]

You went from hot actresses to 1% of average women in your debate on tattoos. Actresses arent the only ones who are hot in this world. There are many, many "average" women who are very attractive and sophisticated who have tattoos you will never see. And rarely do any girls have anything to do with a BF tattooed on themselves.

 

 

My SO had an experience in college with a girl. She said it was fun but she wouldn't do it again because she just likes men too much.

 

 

Just example don't read into like you doing a survey. I am sure you won't want to date a women with the word John Tattoo on her chest or even a sort of picture of him too. Some women go over board with the Tattoo. I know this one guy name Snake will that's his nick-name real name is Justin. That's all he does is draw Tattoos all over his body on his finger, neck, front, arm. I don't know about his back it, I am sure he has something there has he use to work in a Tattoo parlor. He told me he's expressing him self through his Tattoos. His last girl friend never believed in Tattoos until she had broke down and allow Snake to start drawing his artwork on her lower back an etc..

 

I personally don't want a women with a Tattoo on her no matter what type it is. That's me nothing to do with these 27 Red Flag.

[soserious1]

1. there is totally nothing wrong with a woman devoted to health & fitness, I bet such women say no to excessive alcohol intake and illegal drugs as well.

2. there is nothing wrong with a woman in her 30's not wanting to date a man is his late 40's or 50's.. ie: just because you want to tap that arse doesn't mean she's obliged to play along

3. there's nothing wrong with a tasteful bit of ink, this is 2011 not 1957

4. many people have a bi-curious sexual experience, this doesn't automatically

make them closet gay/lesbians seeking to use a straight person as a beard

5. Fit, athletic people generally want to date others who have similar lifestyles, if she's tight,toned she's not obligated to go out with Mr Flabby just because he asks.

[mrgoodcat]

You should add has a BF @ #1. Even if she doesn't speak of him, she's just trying to string you up as a back up or a self-esteem boost.

 

Hehe, I have clearly a selective attention because I should have read this before going through with my shenanigans:

 

http://www.datingclass.com/seduction/girl-with-boyfriend.shtml

 

http://singlecityguy.com/2011/04/18/the-girl-you-like-has-a-boyfriend-now-what/

 

 

I will never make that mistake twice and will slap anyone into reality who is trying to pull same maneuver.

[madjac74]

Just example don't read into like you doing a survey. I am sure you won't want to date a women with the word John Tattoo on her chest or even a sort of picture of him too. Some women go over board with the Tattoo. I know this one guy name Snake will that's his nick-name real name is Justin. That's all he does is draw Tattoos all over his body on his finger, neck, front, arm. I don't know about his back it, I am sure he has something there has he use to work in a Tattoo parlor. He told me he's expressing him self through his Tattoos. His last girl friend never believed in Tattoos until she had broke down and allow Snake to start drawing his artwork on her lower back an etc..

 

I personally don't want a women with a Tattoo on her no matter what type it is. That's me nothing to do with these 27 Red Flag.

 

Yeah but you are warning us to look out for these "red flags" so it's not just personal preference. You know what my tattoo has done for me? People come up to me and ask about it. It's a conversation starter from random people which is always cool.

 

I don't see any negatives to it at all. Besides the initial pain. The same should go for women

[mrgoodcat]

^^^^^^^

 

No offense, but that's not a worth painting yourself permanently. You can always get a hilarious shirt people will comment about or some of the sport brand shirts, so people will ask you if you do cage fighting/MMA. Naw, chick with a tatoo is a taboo. Especially if it has a name in there.

[madjac74]

^^^^^^^

 

No offense, but that's not a worth painting yourself permanently. You can always get a hilarious shirt people will comment about or some of the sport brand shirts, so people will ask you if you do cage fighting/MMA. Naw, chick with a tatoo is a taboo. Especially if it has a name in there.

 

No I did it for myself but I must say I haven't regretted it in the least. I'm not sure why I would. So some pretentious message boards guys who are so willing to disregard a woman with what is nothing more than paint on their skin yet complains that the entire female race isn't compatible for them wont look down on me? No thanks!

[dispatch3d]

I'm almost all of these things so who would I be to judge.

[rafallus]

This is not about my personal preferences this is for all those who are seeking someone either online or outside

 

I personally don't want a women with a Tattoo on her no matter what type it is. That's me nothing to do with these 27 Red Flag.

 

How about getting a congruent view on the issue, before broadcasting it to the world?

[ThsAmericanLife]

Predominates (outdo) you, shows you up constantly, can run as fast you can (hope you can keep) most of these girls/women work out much more than the average female and live by a strict diet too!

 

Well, that would be me. I bet I could outrun you. Thank god!

 

Looks like every ballet dancer, olympic athlete, or any other woman who has a body that does more than sit there and look pretty is off this guy's list.

 

No big loss though...