When Meeting Girls/Women Online or Outside? Look out for these 27 red flags!

[coolheadal]

1. Too Many Guy Friends

2. Make-up Extremeness

3. Obsessed with Online Social Networks

4. Daddy Issues

5. Tattoos

6. Women who Had Sex with the Same Sex

7. Extremely "Anti-Trendy"

8. Overly Forward

9. Too Selective

10. Only wants Physical Attraction

11. Hangs out Quite Often At Bars, Clubs, Etc..

12. Only Poses Sexy Pictures

13. Overly Athletic

14. Been at the Tanning Salon Too much

15. Doesn't want to Date Cougar or Be One

16. Too Easily Offended

17. Extremely Proubty, Etc.

18. Repeats the Work Whatever no Matter What

19. No man on this Earth Can tell her what to do

20. She can come and go as she pleases

21. Control Freak

22. Mood Swings

23. Friend Zone

24. Verbal Abusive

25. Extremely Clueless

26. Sex Craze Every Day Non-Stop

27. Likes to showoff her body parts on a web cam to strangers

Edited September 17, 2011 by coolheadal

[OnyxSnowfall]

(Just to let you know, your post would be taken more seriously... *if* it were written more coherently...

 

well, probably not even then, but at least it would stand a better chance).

[coolheadal]

Well just what I've come across online. Good to know what's going on in both worlds. I know some above has happen to me.

[FitChick]

Please explain 15, 17, 18

[Woggle]

Many of these are certainly red flags.

[coolheadal]

Please explain 15, 17, 18

 

15. Doesn't want to Date Cougar or Be One

Say your in your late 40s-50s and you want to date a girl/woman in their 30s. They don't want to date old man.

 

17. Extremely Proubty, Etc.

Girls/Women who have different reaction each time to "Want to grab dinner? Don't talk to me! Just don't seem to have handle on their emotional reactions

 

18. Repeats the Word Whatever no Matter What

It's suppose to be Word not Work.. Anyway those girls/women don't care what you say to them usually say Whatever to everything to you tell them or ask a question to them. Usually means they don't care what you say to them.

 

Example: Hey Betty what you doing tonight? Betty said Nothing, Hey would like to go a movie tonight. Betty Whatever. Hey did you want to go or not? Betty Whatever! Hey do you like me or Am I wasting my time with you? Betty "Whatever".

Edited September 17, 2011 by coolheadal

[betterdeal]

I tend to take notice of what kind of female company a woman keeps. If she doesn't have female friends, she's probably too much for me to handle.

[Art_Critic]

hahaha.. 27 red flags.. you just eliminated about 100% of the single women dating population...

You are going to be lonely..

 

hahaha...

[OnyxSnowfall]

I tend to take notice of what kind of female company a woman keeps. If she doesn't have female friends, she's probably too much for me to handle.

 

what indications are you seeing from her lack of female friends (or the type of female friends she has?)

[betterdeal]

Most - not all - women with no female friends in my experience have pissed off other women and that normally means sleeping with or getting heavily emotionally involved with their men. They like the thrill of the chase, so you can have a good time chasing them and probably great sex, but if you don't keep it up they'll find someone else to keep the motor ticking over or, even worse, keep prodding you to try and get you to play again.

 

I was a right womaniser in my twenties so I can see a, erm, female equivalent (maniser?) a mile off. I'm just a bit old for all that. Young man's game.

[Cracker Jack]

That's...a ton of red flags to look for, brah.

[coolheadal]

hahaha.. 27 red flags.. you just eliminated about 100% of the single women dating population...

You are going to be lonely..

 

hahaha...

 

 

I am good, thanks

 

This covers online, outside too..

[westernxer]

I hope those 27 flags do not come from one person. LOL

[coolheadal]

Most - not all - women with no female friends in my experience have pissed off other women and that normally means sleeping with or getting heavily emotionally involved with their men. They like the thrill of the chase, so you can have a good time chasing them and probably great sex, but if you don't keep it up they'll find someone else to keep the motor ticking over or, even worse, keep prodding you to try and get you to play again.

 

I was a right womaniser in my twenties so I can see a, erm, female equivalent (maniser?) a mile off. I'm just a bit old for all that. Young man's game.

 

You mean a Player!

[coolheadal]

I hope those 27 flags do not come from one person. LOL

 

Nah but it comes from a more than one. This is it guys it's was Friday night but even though these girls are out partying as we speak. #11

[betterdeal]

You mean a Player!

 

 

'Tis but thy name that is my enemy;

Thou art thyself, though not a Montague.

What's Montague? it is nor hand, nor foot,

Nor arm, nor face, nor any other part

Belonging to a man. O, be some other name!

What's in a name? that which we call a rose

By any other name would smell as sweet;

So Romeo would, were he not Romeo call'd,

Retain that dear perfection which he owes

Without that title. Romeo, doff thy name,

And for that name which is no part of thee

Take all myself.

[Art_Critic]

I hope those 27 flags do not come from one person. LOL

 

You must be talking about my Ex Wife

[coolheadal]

'Tis but thy name that is my enemy;

Thou art thyself, though not a Montague.

What's Montague? it is nor hand, nor foot,

Nor arm, nor face, nor any other part

Belonging to a man. O, be some other name!

What's in a name? that which we call a rose

By any other name would smell as sweet;

So Romeo would, were he not Romeo call'd,

Retain that dear perfection which he owes

Without that title. Romeo, doff thy name,

And for that name which is no part of thee

Take all myself.

 

You said you were a womenizer in your twenties..

a man who makes every woman fall head over heals in love with him, and he already has like many other girl friends also called Player..

 

Interesting poem above..

[betterdeal]

You said you were a womenizer in your twenties..

a man who makes every woman fall head over heals in love with him, and he already has like many other girl friends also called Player..

 

Interesting poem above..

 

Yes, I know. Womaniser, player - call it what you will. A rose by another name would smell as sweet. Hence the Romeo & Juliet quote. It's all as old as the hills this stuff. Young men and women like to have sex and romance more than old men and women. No big deal.

[coolheadal]

Yes, I know. Womaniser, player - call it what you will. A rose by another name would smell as sweet. Hence the Romeo & Juliet quote. It's all as old as the hills this stuff. Young men and women like to have sex and romance more than old men and women. No big deal.

 

Not a big deal but even old gents and women are also that active. I am not that old but still I am not player. I do know players but I've told them cool down but they want have 6 or 10 or more women to sex all day, jump around with live with one her and live with another an etc. This is why some guys are never happy with their life. One of them told me his wife cheated on him and that's how he became a player. He was in his 20s a player and now in his 40s still at it. Also hit the bottle too.

[betterdeal]

Sure, it's not an absolute rule, it's a generality. Generally people calm down as they get older.

 

Lots of people are never happy be they married with kids or single. Most people are happy with some aspects of their lives and unhappy with others. Some are happy as a pig in sh*t being single, being poly-amorous, being monogamous, being one thing one time then something else some other time.

 

For every anecdote you can raise I can raise you one that's contrary to it.

[coolheadal]

Sure, it's not an absolute rule, it's a generality. Generally people calm down as they get older.

 

Lots of people are never happy be they married with kids or single. Most people are happy with some aspects of their lives and unhappy with others. Some are happy as a pig in sh*t being single, being poly-amorous, being monogamous, being one thing one time then something else some other time.

 

For every anecdote you can raise I can raise you one that's contrary to it.

 

For argument sake, then touche

[oaks]

13. Overly Athletic

 

How much is "overly"? Do you mean that, physically, she looks like a body builder? Or what? And why is it a red flag (vs just a subjective attraction issue) to be athletic?

[rafallus]

How are:

 

5. Tattoos

6. Women who Had Sex with the Same Sex

 

red flags?

 

Also, many of these aren't red flags, but legitimate turn offs. In that "you do that, I'm gone" way.

[madjac74]

My SO said she had sex with her female roomie in college. Red flag? No. Instant boner? Yes!