CBlasek Posted May 10, 2004 Posted May 10, 2004 Ok. So me and this girl have been friends for awhile and we are getting serious. This Thursday we are doing something special and I wan all of your opinions on it. We both love Hockey. I got tickets to the game. But before the game we said we were gonna go to the shore. I wanna know what you all think of this. I am picking her up at 1pm Driving to the shore should be there around 3. Were gonna walk along the shoreline holding hands and all and than head back to Philly to watch the Flyers. Does this seem like a good time to talk to her about our future togethor. I mean this sounds very romantic and nice and than finishing it up with something we both love. Any ideas of how to make this night anymore special or any ideas would be much appreciated.
bluechocolate Posted May 10, 2004 Posted May 10, 2004 You probably want to hear from some women on this, so just one thought: I would wait until after the game. What if the conversation doesn't go as you hope? Then you both have to sit through the game in an awkward silence.
BlueLP Posted May 10, 2004 Posted May 10, 2004 That sounds like a great time together which will be special as it is. I don't know how long you and this girl have been "serious," but I would suggest taking it slow and enjoying the evening without bringing up talk about your future this soon. If you've been dating a while or there is a lot of confusion about your status due to being friends previously, then a talk may be due...but otherwise, enjoy a nice evening Think about what you want for the future in case she brings it up. However, she's probably very happy to ease into this new stage of the relationship and feel it out first before she decides what it means and where it is going.
Chrisinnj Posted May 10, 2004 Posted May 10, 2004 I would definetly wait until after the game, or if you both love Hockey so much doing it right after the game in the area when the people file out might be a good idea...tell her you like the way the arena is when it's empty and stay behind and talk to her there.....
Author CBlasek Posted May 11, 2004 Author Posted May 11, 2004 I just changed it up. Were going to go to the shore after the game. Midnight on the beach! She knows how I feel. Im just waiting for her. I told her I do not wish to rush her at all. I mean we still have our life in front of us. Were both 19. Plus with the way the Flyers are playing now it should be a good time. I dont know how to explain it with us. Every minute we are not togethor or not talking I am depressed. She is the reason why I get up in the morning.
Author CBlasek Posted May 14, 2004 Author Posted May 14, 2004 Ok. So I just got back. IT was a amazing time. We went to the shore before the game like we said. We just walked along the water. Than we went to the game. We lost but it was cool. On the way home we talked and the feelings are mutual. SO I AM FLOATING ON AIR! Any ideas for a unusual second date?
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