ppge4 Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 He lives down the street and we run into each other a few times a week. He recently asked me on a couple of outings one-on-one, but both times they were very casual. We definitely connect well in conversation but so far nothing physical. He's definitely a "guy's guy" and isn't really the type to go out of his way to make a girl his friend. His flirtation towards me really seems genuine, but he isn't actively pursuing me like I wish he would. I'm so confused? I'm doing my best to show him that I'm interested Am I forever stuck in the this weird friend zone?
oaks Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 His flirtation towards me really seems genuine, but he isn't actively pursuing me like I wish he would. I'm so confused? I'm doing my best to show him that I'm interested Guys don't get subtle signs, so what are you doing to show that you're interested?
Author ppge4 Posted September 16, 2011 Author Posted September 16, 2011 Nothing direct. More like body signals. He's a really smart guy and not completely clueless so I can't imagine that he doesn't know!
SillyS Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 He might just have a more relaxed approach. I think the casual outings are a good sign indeed, because unless you both work together and eat out together...those are signs in themselves. Just keep subtly flirting with him, and be patient. He's just getting to know you, and if he's interested there should be more advancements soon enough.
GivenUp0083 Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 If you're attractive and we're straight: Guys don't put girls in the friend zone. We either want to bang you or we don't.
verhrzn Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 If you're attractive and we're straight: Guys don't put girls in the friend zone. We either want to bang you or we don't. The guy version of the Friend Zone is wanting to bang you but not date you.
Author ppge4 Posted September 16, 2011 Author Posted September 16, 2011 haha. Well we certainly haven't had sex....haven't even kissed. Who knows if it'll ever happen at this point. He's been gearing up for a big Europe/Australia trip with his old college buddies and they actually left today, so maybe this wasn't the best week to analyze his actions. Hopefully he'll get ample chance to party himself out. I'll be interested to see how he acts when his life goes back to being normal...
Kamille Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 Nothing direct. More like body signals. He's a really smart guy and not completely clueless so I can't imagine that he doesn't know! What kind of body signals? Like touching his forearm? Leaning in? Glancing at his lips?
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