InYourEyes Posted May 10, 2004 Posted May 10, 2004 My ex and I are about to get back together. But, I have a feeling he cheated on me when we were together before. Should I ask him if he ever cheated on me when we were together or should I let it go? I certainly don't want to start things off on the wrong foot if I'm wrong, but if I am right, I don't know if I'd necessaruly get back with him. Advice, please...I'm SO confused
bluechocolate Posted May 10, 2004 Posted May 10, 2004 You have unresolved issues about believing he cheated on you when you were together before. And what do you mean that you don't know if you would necessarily get back with him if he was cheating on you? Is there some kind of cheating that is more acceptable than others? It sounds to me like you shouldn't be getting back together at all.
Author InYourEyes Posted May 10, 2004 Author Posted May 10, 2004 You are right. I do have unresolved issues about believing he cheated on me when you were together before. That's my point: Do I confront him about it? And as far as not necessarily getting back together if he did cheat. I believe in 2nd chances, to a degree. I don't believe cheating is acceptable at all, yet I will not live my life by a set of unspoken rules regarding cheating. I believe people are human and they make mistakes. Does anyone have any advice about whether I should ask about this? Thanks
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