crackster Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 Ok guys its been 3 weeks i had to break the NC as we have a joint bank account and i went to the bank and we both have to be there! so i text saying that we both have to be there to cancel it.. and she still wont text me back! why is she being so childish! when there or things we need to sort out! sorry its just pissing me off
Dark Phoenix Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 my ex and I had a joint back account together, and I fell into the same predicament. But while we were there we learned that the primary account name is the only person that needs to be there in order to cancel a joint account. I'd check with your bank, it would have saved me a lot of grief.
Author crackster Posted September 16, 2011 Author Posted September 16, 2011 Thanks i have a look into it. i just find it pathetic that she cant even text back after 2.5 years! after she left me! ffs
geegirl Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 (edited) Ok guys its been 3 weeks i had to break the NC as we have a joint bank account and i went to the bank and we both have to be there! so i text saying that we both have to be there to cancel it.. and she still wont text me back! why is she being so childish! when there or things we need to sort out! sorry its just pissing me off I'm going to sprout a pair of horns here and ask you this. If you went to the bank, wouldn't you have asked them and wouldn't they have told you that either primary or both of you need to be there. Why would you need to check with the bank again, if you already checked and was told that you both needed to be there? Or were you using this as a reason to test the waters? Edited September 16, 2011 by geegirl
Author crackster Posted September 16, 2011 Author Posted September 16, 2011 no i did ask her and she said both of u have to be there to cancel it.
Mack05 Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 (edited) no i did ask her and she said both of u have to be there to cancel it. These kind of things should have been sorted straight away after the breakup. It's vital to tie up all loose ends as quickly as possible in these types of situations. Otherwise it stops you from moving on, as its floating in the back of your mind. You have broken NC and I agree with geegirl, I think you were fishing and now that you didn't get a reply, you are annoyed and frustrated unnecessarily. If it wasn't done straight away, then really what is the rush? I would have given it a few months but it is what it is. I would sent her a text saying "Listen its best to get this sorted ASAP, so that we can both move on with our lives. Text me and let me know when you want to do this". I would send her an email as well just in case she has blocked you from her phone. Once that text/mail is sent then leave it until she comes back to you. Edited September 16, 2011 by Mack05
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